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How to Quit Heroin in a Drug
Rehabilitation Center |
If you've tried Plan A, Plan B and Plan C and still
continue to fail then you may want to consider
Plan D:
Quitting Heroin in a Drug Rehabilitation Center
If you have the funds or health care insurance, then
admitting yourself into a drug rehabilitation center may be the
best way for you to go if you simply can’t stop using
heroin while living on the outside.
However, if you have children, a baby, a pregnant
girlfriend, house payments, car payments, a business, a
career or other major responsibilities then things can
become a little more complicated.
You may be willing to lose the house, the car and even
the job but you can’t just leave a baby, your children
or a pregnant girlfriend behind. You will
have to make some form of arrangement without abandoning your
responsibilities.
But if the circumstances are right, and you have the
means of covering the costs for treatment, then a good
long stay in a drug rehab center just might help you
accomplish ‘The Impossible Dream’, and
that is to quit heroin, stay clean, and turn
your life around.
In rehab, you’re safe. You’re
far away from the dope spot, the dope-man and
all of your dope friends. Relocation, isolation and
inaccessibility to opiates such as heroin, percs and
oxy's can help make
your physical and mental battles much more easier to
cope with.
More than 2 million people in the U.S. alone are
addicted to heroin. Only 1% of heroin addicts manage
to quit heroin, stay clean, and turn their lives around.
And
You can be a part of that 1%.
Yet due to the high costs associated with professional
treatment, only a small fraction of these people are
able to obtain the help they need. That’s unfortunate,
seeing that long term and professional drug treatment
programs often have high success rates.
The right program, in the right place, surrounded by the
right type of staff, can really make a difference in the
recovery of these individuals. But once again, money and
policy changes everything. If you have no money and no
health insurance then you’re basically on your own. Plan
A becomes your best solution –
Quitting heroin cold
turkey.
However, there are some free, state-run,
detox and rehab facilities in most states and some
countries as well. But if you're here in the United
States then you can find a free or low cost, state-run
detox center for you or your loved ones to go to by
calling 1-800-662-HELP (4357).
There’re also many long term, church ran
rehabilitation centers which will accept you
for free, as long as you can read, right and work. The
reason being is that most church ran programs
are actually work programs where they help you but put you to work
as well to pay for room and board. And there’s nothing
wrong with that. Work is good.
While you’re there, you may even learn some good
solid principles, become a hard worker, and learn how to get
along with others in a civilized manner. It
might be a good place to go, even if it’s just to get
away from all the drugs and give you enough time to get
your stuff together. To find such a program all you have
to do is start visiting your local churches in your
area, find the people in charge and ask them to direct
you in the right direction.
However, with this new health care reform plan, you may have
a better chance of obtaining health insurance in order
to get into a good quality, drug treatment center. The
cost to enter into a professional drug treatment center
can range anywhere from $3,000, $10,000 to $20,000 or more.
If you have insurance, then check with your health insurance provider to see what
your options are and what they have to offer. They may
have a list of their top picks for drug rehabilitation
centers. And they may cover all or most of the costs.
Then once you know
you’re covered or have the funds to pay for your stay in
a good rehabilitation center then do it.
Start searching for the perfect drug
rehabilitation center and then proceed to make the
necessary arrangements to go there.
The first thing you’ll
want to do is to perform a good search online
for drug rehabilitation centers, drug treatment
centers, detox centers etc.
Enter different keywords and keyword phrases
into the Google search box and see what comes
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Look and/or ask for pictures of the facilities. You’ll want to know what the place
looks like inside and out before you even go there.
You’re looking for pictures of clean and decent
bed rooms, cafeterias, recreational facilities, lobbies,
meetings rooms, gyms, pools, basketball courts, running
tracks, huge back yards, paths, scenic views etc…
You’re going to be living there for as long as you can.
The more decent and clean the facilities are, then the
more comfortable you’ll feel while staying there. Ask them
to send you pamphlets and brochures. Try to speak to the
counselors who will be working with you beforehand in
order to get a better feel for them. You can even ask
them to send you a picture of them to your email
address. As you’ll soon find out, your relationship with
your dedicated counselor will have a great effect upon
your stay and recovery.
Furthermore, your counselor will have a good
understanding and maybe even some personal experiences
of what heroin addiction is like and not just some insight
from what they’ve learned from their textbooks.
Most heroin addicts will tell you that they would much
rather receive counseling from someone who at one point
in their life was addicted to heroin and has managed to
break free from the drug and stay clean for good, than
from someone who has taken 6 years of mental health
courses but has never touched a single drug in their
life.
No one will truly understand what a heroin
addict is going though like an x-heroin addict will.
Many, many years ago, I admitted myself into Brookside
Hospital in Nashua, New Hampshire at the age of 19. It
was a very nice, clean professional treatment center. I
was on my mothers’ insurance policy at the time. And at
$1,000 per day I thought I’d be living like a king. It
had nice bed rooms for 2, a nice but small backyard with
a few picnic tables, clean modern cafeteria, nice
meeting room, etc. I think it even had a gym but I never
got to see it. Yet the type of treatment I received
there was not worth the money.
After a few days of painful detox, my dedicated
counselor took me outside to have a chat with me for the
first time. She wasn’t too pretty to look at, that’s for
sure. She looked and acted as if she was burnt out and
wasted. She started smoking her cigarettes, blowing
smoke all over the place and telling me that she knew
exactly how I felt and what I was going through because
she herself used to be an alcoholic at one time.
Then she said, “it’s all the same; heroin addiction,
cocaine addiction, alcoholism was all the same. An
addiction is an addiction”. That’s what she said. But
that’s not true. She just didn’t understand.
There is no drug addiction like heroin
addiction, especially when there’s needles
involved. There is no lifestyle such as the
lifestyle of a heroin addict whose brain has
been programmed and hardwired to seek and use heroin no
matter what.
When she said that, I thought to myself, “man, this lady
has no idea of what I’m going through. She doesn’t
understand anything”. Needless to say, I shut down and
didn’t say a word to her.
I don’t care how professional she thought she was or how
many years she spent taking psychology courses in
college. Neither her, nor any of the other staff,
including the director of the center were
able to get through to me and help me with my heroin
addiction.
I may be wrong, but I strongly believe that people have
no idea of what goes on in the mind and life of a heroin
addict until you’ve been a heroin addict yourself for at
least 1 to 4 years.
Yet it wasn’t because of her that I left. And there was
nothing wrong with Brookside Hospital itself. The place was
fine. I left because of my outside circumstances and
also because of the fact that I was only 30 minutes away
from home/the dope spot.
I had a pregnant girlfriend on the outside and I
couldn’t bear to leave her alone any more. She was
crying every day, (or was that just an excuse for me to
leave). So I got up and left after a few days. Needless
to say, I went right back to the dope spot.
I should’ve stayed there for at least 2 to 3 weeks. I
should have made arrangements, moved my pregnant
girlfriend in with my mother and asked my family to keep
her company. But I had neither guidance, nor
direction on what to do. So I left.
Your outside circumstances can end up having a
strong pull on you. However, if you can make
the necessary arrangements beforehand and if the funds are
available then do it. Find the best drug
rehabilitation center and go. Turn your life around.
Once you’ve found the
right drug treatment center for you, then check
to see where they might have other locations far
away from your home town. The farther, the
better.
You may even want to consider going out
of state, cross country, or even down south to
sunny Florida. Try to get as far as you can.
This will help eliminate the temptation of
giving up and going back home.
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Then once you know exactly where you’re going
to go, get up, pack your stuff up, buy a one way
plane or bus ticket and go. Take some specialty
books of interest with you. You’ll have plenty of time
to read. Bring books and magazines on self-help,
personal development, health, finance and business.
You won’t be going into rehab just to get off of
heroin. You’re going into rehab to re-educate yourself
and re-create yourself all over again from scratch.
The drug rehabilitation center will be your safe haven -
a place to get away from all the bad things in your
life. It will also become your training grounds to
learn how to live the rest of your life as a drug free,
decent and moral individual.
While you’re there, you’re going to make a new
man, or a new woman out of yourself. And it
takes time and effort to change who you are so plan on
staying there for as long as you can. A 3 to 6 months
stay in a professional treatment center can work
wonders.
Once you get there, make yourself at home. Don’t be cold
or mean to the staff. Drop that wannabe gangster act.
That’s not you. You’re a good person who wants
to quit heroin and turn your life around. That's why
you're reading this now.
Be kind and respectful to everyone around you. And be
extra nice to the lady who hands out the meds. She’ll be
your new best friend while you’re there.
They’re all there to assist you, so it won’t do you any
good to put on the tough guy act or act like a stuck up
brat to those who are there to help you change your
life. Submit yourself to their authority and they will
treat you with kindness and respect.
If you have to go through the detox phase then most
likely they’ll give you your own room, or divided room
for the first 3-4 days. During those first few days, no
one will bother you, other than to give you your
medication, pain killers etc.
However, be forewarned that most drug treatment
centers make you do it cold or warm turkey with the help
of medications like Clonidine, Ibuprofen etc...
Take whatever they give you and be thankful – it could
be worse.
Then they’ll either introduce you to your counselor or
have you start attending group meetings. Be kind and
cooperative with your counselor and everyone else
involved. And since you’re paying
for it, make sure to get everything off your chest. Let
it all out so that he or she can begin to help you find a
possible solution to each and every one of your
problems.
When it comes to introducing yourself and participating
in group meetings, things can become a little awkward
and unpleasant, unless of course, you’re already a
social person and enjoy talking to others.
However, most heroin users are not sociable so it’s like
being forced to be around people who you simply don’t
want to be with.
But hopefully, little by little, you can overcome that
common, anti-social feeling in order to get help
and get to know your fellow patients. Little by little,
you’ll start to feel more comfortable in these types of
settings. You’re all there for the same purpose, and
that is, to quit drugs and turn your lives
around.
After you’re feeling better physically and emotionally
and you’ve become used to your daily routine, ask the
head of staff to allow you to use the gym first thing in
the morning.
Exercising 3 to 5 days per week, first thing in the
morning can help you to become healthier, physically and
emotionally. This will also help you to live a better
life within the treatment center for the long term.
You’ll begin to feel much better as the days go by when
you exercise 3 to 5 days per week.
While you’re there, try to help your fellow man
(or woman), by encouraging them every day. Even
if you just send them a thumbs up or a few smiles through out the day,
your positive energy can begin to have a great effect
upon their lives.
Don’t be cold to anyone. Be kind and courteous to
everyone there. Before you can become a positive
influence to anyone then you’ll need to at least be on
the right track yourself. You’re there to fix
your own life but if you can manage to become a positive
influence upon someone else’s life then everybody wins.
It will come back to you.
When you’re not involved in group meetings, activities,
counseling, and daily routines then take some time to
read your books on self help, personal development,
health, nutrition, finance, business and careers.
Re-educate yourself daily.
Use this time to also think about all the wrong
you’ve done to your friends and family and how you’re
going to do your best to make things right in order to
make amends. This is called restitution, and
restitution must be paid in one form or another.
Use this time to create, design and plan your
future. Write down your goals and dreams in a
notebook. Include as much detail as you can. Then create
and write a step-by-step plan on how to achieve those
goals as quickly as possible. You can start
changing your life in rehab even before you go back out into the world.
You can also use this time to write about yourself, what
your life was like as a heroin addict and how you’ve
come to the place to where you are now.
Then once you’ve been clean and have remained clean for
some time, then you can publish your writings on the
internet to help inspire and motivate other addicts to
quit heroin and turn their lives around just as you did.
Make the most of your time while you’re in rehab.
Use this time to renew and transform your mind
and manner of thinking. Work on your
attitude, your personality, and everything else
you don’t like about yourself. Prepare yourself well
before you go back out into the real world - the battle
field.
If you put these words into action then you
should do well in rehab and even more so in the real
world as well.
Just remember to take it one day at a time. Each day
without the use of heroin is a great accomplishment so
give yourself credit for that.
You can do this. You can go into rehab, quit
heroin and turn your life around, once and for all.
You can do anything you put your mind to. All you have
to do now is just get up and do it.
Good luck. And may the
good force be with you.
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