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Real
Testimonies Pt.2 |
The following is a compilation of more real
testimonies received from people
all over the world.
These are real testimonies from real heroin addicts,
recovering addicts, mothers and fathers helping their
children quit heroin; brothers and sisters helping their
family members quit heroin; boyfriends and girlfriends
helping their loved ones quit heroin and stay clean for
good. Names have been abbreviated with initials to
insure privacy. Personal and private details have also
been removed as well. Enjoy.
"Hey man i found this site during my first day of
quiting and i found it to be the most helpful website
out there. you know exactly what its like going through
this. right now i am almost done with my 3rd day
so im very happy... any way thank you so so
much for taking the time to make your site it has been
alot of help..." PB (male)
"hi jorge ive just spent the last hour or so reading
your site and i think its brill that you r doin this to
help others... i haven't smoked herion since
satday now and i dont feel as bad as i thought i would
... but atleast im doin something about it now
(better late then never) .. my boyfriend is helpin me...
thanks for this site u r a real star to be takin your
time to help others keep up the good work.... xx.."
KD (female)
"Today is my first day im 23 hrs in
right now trying to go strong. I am doing it cold
turkey." MP (male)
UPDATE: "I've been 8 days clean
so far and i already feell like a new person..
i went to Ac for the weekend had a great nd i had so
much more fun with out being doped up..thanks
alot for the help... other things thats helping alot is
3 of my other friends quit cuz i did..again
i wana thankk you alotttt..." MP (male)
"hey... ive been clean for 3 full days now
and im on my fourth day its almost the
end of the day and i will be honest that i am
doing better than i was than day 1.....its been
for sure 5 to 6 months straight now and its the
first time this long that i actually stopped for 3 in a
half days... im hanging in there and
trying to survive...." RG (male)
UPDATE: "today is my seventh
day and i actually slept 9 hours last
night before then the last 6 days i sleept for
my 7 hours waisted 5 hours of sleep....thanks for being
there for me..." RG (male)
"hola bro jorge, i'm " " from tiny singapore... i'd like
to thank u for giving me so much inspiration to quit
this drug once n for all. but i'm really doing
this for my sweet wife who has been by my side
thru thick n thin. she is the main reason i'm
determined to quit cold turkey for. i've tried
n failed to quit on several occasions, but this time,
esp after finding n reading thru your very detailed
information on how to quit drugs in numerous ways, i
should say that i'm very lucky to come across this
website. n for ur info,...i've been in n out of drug
rehab centres n prisons numerous times.... i had made up
my mind to fight this scourge one day at a time. at time
of writing, i've juz completed my 2nd day, going
3rd,... thank u very much bro, ...n also plz
say a prayer 4 me..." SM (male)
"Good Evening Jorge, Its been 16 days!!!!!
I'm so proud of " " I can barely contain it!!.
You've been so kind and the information from your site
invaluable. I wanted to give you a update on her
progress.... she was moved from detox to
treatment her fourth day.... She is taking her
12 step programs very seriously.... Every day brings new
challenges but equally so new joys and great progress.
It is still a long long road ahead and a lifetime of
commitment to sobriety. We're taking each day, each hour
each step one at a time.... I printed quite a
few pages from your website and sent them to her. """
has read every one repeatedly. She is finally
wrapping her brain around the necessity of leaving all
her drug friends behind her. I believe she is on the
right path. I feel more hopeful for her success today
than two weeks ago. There is light at the end of
this tunnel! Thank you again so very much for
your support and invaluable information. Once the rehab
bills are paid, you can expect a donation from me to
assist your cause..." TD (male helping female
friend)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, Another follow up
for you. Its now been 28 days!....
she has begun the process of cutting off her
"drug friends" and has even flat out blocked
several... " " has a new cell number to help as
well..... one of the biggest
accomplishments was getting off of Suboxone totally.
Because of her determination she perhaps did this a
little early.... but that was 10 days ago and she seems
fine now. Fine and happy... Thank you
again for all the information and your words of
encouragement..." TD (male helping female
friend)
"Dear Jorge, Thank you for this incredible website!!! My
son,... has been on heroin/ crack/ painkillers for
several years and been to rehab twice. He
recently "came clean" to a much more thorough
degree than ever before and this is first time he seems
completely honest. It appears to me that he really has
the intention and drive to quit.... He's trying
and I want him to have another chance to do this with
help.... Anyway, I printed your
articles and will give them to him... Thank you
for your positivity... it's so refreshing. And thanks
for reaching out to all of us! I believe your website
will help us to succeed... Much love to you,..."
BL (mother helping son)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge, Thanks for replying
to my email! My son hasn't emailed yet because he's
feeling pretty crummy at the moment. He's taking
your advice about music and friends. He's on day 3 of
withdrawls and doing great. He took a major
step today and decided he should stop talking to his
closest friend, who happens to be the guy with whom he
first did heroin... I'm sure you're really busy and I
thank you for taking time to help people. Just wanted to
tell you, I will follow your program and strive
to keep peace and harmony in my home at all times.
I've got the article for parents, and I'm going to read
it every night before bed... Best Regards..." BL
(mother helping son)
UPDATE: "Hello, I'm on day 3 of
of withdrawal!.... I read your script
and it has been the most workable way for me to kick.
So thanks for that. But ya I can't wait til this is done
with..... And thing you wrote about regarding
the possitive music is true. I've been
listening to me mom's i pod instead of mine and it's
helping a lot... Sincerely,..." RL (son of
mother BL:)
UPDATE: "Good morning or closer to good
afternoon maybe for you. Thanks a lot for the comm back!
I feel a lot better today. I
did take some dayquil when I woke up but I can
tell I'm over the hump. I'm going to follow your
gideline on what to take cuz so far this has
been one of the more easier kicks. Not to say
it's fun lol. I like your view point on looking
into the future and thinking how to
make these things right. I already have ideas
and I know once I start with them I'll start to feel a
lot better. I really want to be drug free.
I'm glad to be in comm with you. Thanks again for your
time and support...Sincerely,..." RL (son of
mother BL)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge, It's a miracle...my
son is emailing you!!!! " " has always hated writing -
I've never seen him send emails to people or write
letters. But he's writing to you! He's winning
so far, and I can see that you're a source of
strength for him... I want him to succeed and I see that
your influence is a Godsend,... Jorge, I am grateful to
you. I hope to contribute to your goals of helping make
this world a happier place.... and I'm so eager to
donate to your cause! Thank you so very much for your
time! Warmest Regards,..." BL (mother helping
son)
UPDATE: "Hey man, That helped I just
needed to hear it from someone who knows. And I feel a
whole lot better! I'm only on day 5 but
other than my sleep being a bit wacked, it's all good.
Work got a bit tough as the night went on but I know
that will get better soon. That's it for now I'm
going to go enjoy my drug free day now. Thanks
for you word!..." RL (son of mother BL)
UPDATE: "thanks man for the props!!!...
I only had 3 days off for kicking but I was lucky to
have that is the view point I took. You know cuz I
could've been kicking in jail or at the homeless
shelter... I am feeling better and better though
and my imagination is coming back just a bit.... Any
way...I'm digging being free from all that and
I'm looking forward to the future that is near
by... Good talking to you!..." RL (son of mother
BL)
UPDATE: "Hey Man,... Ya you know you're
right.... I got say, I've been observing that thing
you're talking about with the kind of energy
people around me emit and there's a lot to that....
it's always good hearing from you. You've got really
good word on all this. What you say and advise makes a
lot of sense to me... I told my mom everything
that I've done. I mean all of it, everything I
can remember at least and I feel so much
stronger as a person. It's like telling her has
cleaned my soul up, made me feel like my old self.
I haven't felt that in a long time. If I ever
run into anyone who wants to get clean I'll suggest that
they do the same thing, tell them everything, ask for
forgiveness and figure out how to fix it. Which I have a
good plan for myself on how I can start making these
things I've done right..." RL (son of mother BL)
"Hey Jorge,... Thx for your feedback. Words cant explain
how much it means. My friend " " referred me to
your site. HE contacted you when he was doing
cold turkey off of heroin, he was the " " who beat
heroin, you might recall. You will be happy to know
he is still clean and hasnt looked back. He is
now using his office to host NA meetings a couple times
per week and is looking to start a counseling service.
I will keep you posted and thx for helping in my time of
need..." JJ (male)
"Hi Jorge,..., I just came across your web page on how
to quit heroin, and it truly inspired me. I want to
thank you for the words of wisdom, and ask for a bit of
advice if possible." .."... and again thanks for making
your web page. I am going to recommend it to those
friends of mine (who I have distanced myself from) who
are having trouble getting off this drug... Best,..."
MF
(male)
"hi jorge, I don't know if you remember me and my story,
but, I wanted you to know that im clean!!! I quit
finally on April 1st! AND AM STILL GOING STRONG!!!!!!!
I
have not relapsed and I have moved across the country to
make sure I stay clean! I just wanted you to know!
Thanks for every word you ever wrote to me...you really
have stayed with me through all of this. THANK YOU!!!!"
AH (female)
UPDATE: "i came over to the library to check my emails
and you popped into my head. i wanted to let you know
that im still going strong. i am now almost 6 freaking
months sober. wow. i dont think ive said that outloud
until just now. wow... 6 months... thankfully i live
1000 miles away from anyone that i know... even though
this is an email i still enjoy writing you... thanks for
that..." AH (female)
"thank you very much, well since we last spoke,
i been
attending NA meetings ever day and on the 2nd of this
coming month i go to a 12step assessment to join
classes, i starting push ups and jogging... thanx for
the work out idea/plan. thank you very much again. its
great that i have so much support for all directions
even online neutral person that been thru it."
RB (male)
UPDATE: "hello again i know its been along time since i
have talked to you... but i would like to thank you very
very much you have helped me get thu a very rough part
of my life. i have been clean now for months and feel
great, im gaining weight again im lookin better im
feeling better emotionally my relationships are better
with my girl friend mother father sis ect. i have moved
20 miles away from were i used to live changed ... well
deleted all my old acquaintances i
got my old job back
im going to collage again, i have lil money in my pocket
all my bills are payed and getting payed off on credit
cards which got alll maxed out from my heroin uses.
im
doing great and fig i would let you know thank you for
your support when i needed it. i work out 3 days a week,
i run nightly. i moved out on my own all by my self!!!!
and im clean!!!!! i never thought id be able to do
this.... sincerely a recovering heroin abuser..."
RB
(male)
"Hey Jorge,Thank you for being able to relate, man
im on
day 8... im glad i found your article. its awesome,...
thanks..." NS (female)
UPDATE: "Jorge, Thanks for alll your support, your doing
a great thing for people, my mom was the one who found
your website and im glad she did, it helped me so much
:) I went on the run this morning and mannnn o mannn am
I out of shape. You never realize how much you are
killing your body until you quit using! And I am only
21yrs old so I definately shouldnt be this exhausted. I
bought the vitamins and am just trying to stay on
routine. Like give my life more structure so that I am
not just sitting in my house. I was for the first week
but after reading your piece on not to stay in bed and
"wither away" lol :) then i decided to get up and get it
together. Making amends have also helped tremendously... i am just soooooo happy i found someone that has gone
through what i did.... I will stay in the battle and I
will start loooking at the positive. I have an interview
at a new job and am starting school again soon
hopefully.... THANK YOU YOU ARE AN INSPIRIATION! and i
hope all is well for you :)..." NS (female)
"Hi, I have been smoking H for about 3 years and
it is
time to quit (I smoked 2-3 bags a day 0.6g of cut H per
day). I am currently as writing this almost 72hrs clean
using subs of which I only take 2mg in the morning
before work and maybe 2mg before bed to get a good
nights sleep..... As many others have commented, this is
probably the most helpful website on the internet and I
have read almost every article, which has taken me all
evening... so that is another day over with... Please
keep up the good work. Best Regards.." KC (male)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge,... Well I would like to thank you
for your kind words of wisdom as I have been clean for
almost 5 weeks and I haven't even thought about it once
and I don't know how it happened... its like something
clicked in my head and everything fell into place.., it
feels as if I have control of my life again... I would
like to thank you for your great support, even if we did
only exchange a few emails it must have been enough.
Please keep up the excellent work that you do and
hopefully many more people will be able to kick this
devil drug out of their lives forever. Thanks Again,
Sincerely..." KC (male)
"hi jorge ive been injectin for 5 months now and the
past 3 weeks ive been doin 25-30 bags a days. im tired
of it just want to feel normal again im ready to quit
and so thankful that i came across ur websit.... hope u
get my e-mail and reply thanks so much..." GH (female)
UPDATE: "hi jorge... thank you for e-mailing me bak...
im goin to stock up on drinks food and stuff that i will
be needing for the next 7 days. im so happy you reply
back im acutually lookin forward to quit i cant wait.
i
know i can do it.... i know i have a lot of questions
and im so thankful your here to answer them as much as
you can. thank you jorge!! im lookin forward for a new
life a new me. ive been avoidin my family and friends
and i feel really really bad about it. im ready to do
this for them and myself. im headin to the supermarket
to stock up now.hope to hear from you soon thanks..."
GH
(female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, DAY3 almost over..just
took a bath
and lil less than 4mg sub to get rid of the chills. I'm
hanging in there I havn't taken any walks cause it rain
the past two days. Slept alot but would wake up ever hr
or two. My bf puts baby powder on me before I go to
sleep, it works and makes it less sweaty. I'm ready for
DAY4 i'll try to get sum walks in tomorrow instead of
sleep =). Thanks for your support Jorge!! take care and
ttyt..." GH (female)
"Heloo Jorge! :)... I have decided to go cold turkey!
And I Just want to say how glad I am to find this site!
How much inspiration and support this gives me! Im
really truely thankfull that this is here and I have
acess to it and I can write to you! I have dicided to
quit! Thats it! It has to stop. I am wasting all my
money to feed the habit.. In last 6 month i havent
bought anything for myself.. just wasted it on H..
NO
MORE!!! IM smoking about a bag and a half to two bags a
day.. NO MORE! EVER! And again - thank you so soooo much
for creating this web site!! It has helped me to open my
eyes!..Again, I have to say how much positive energy I
get each time I go through your web site.. Man, many
many thanks!!!..." MP (male)
UPDATE: "How r you bro? Hope your all right!!! Iv good
news,... I completely cut myself off everybody, quite
literally in fact - EVERYBODY! So it was "work -> home,
home -> work" kind if a thing going on with me for some
time now.. I'm feeling more or less all right now,
i'm
clean,... So that's me - clean, kind of happy, and
getting my life back together! Jorge, i need to say a
huge - THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH, man you
have been a great help, iv read your site over and over
again and again and it helped so so much, I absorbed
strength from it somehow, sounds weird but when i'm down
or feeling tempted to get high - i read through it.. so
no more! ever! .... its so not worth it! So that's how
things are going with me.. :) :) :) I made it! They were
the hardest 3 weeks of my life.. but.. somehow i'm still
standing!... I CAN SAY NO!!!!! I CAN!! I DID!!! NO
MORE!!! :) That my little victory! I'm proud of myself!
:)..." MP (male)
"Jorge, I'm quitting heroin cold turkey. Today is day
one....I've only been using heroin a few months.... I
know I can do this, I know I can get through
withdrawals..." SP (female)
UPDATE: "Thanks a lot for your response, Jorge. Your
pointers have really helped, especially the hot
baths..." SP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, Thanks very much for keeping in
touch,... I'm doing great. I decided .... to go on
suboxone and it's really been a lifesaver.
I'm going to
stick with it for a while until I feel I'm ready to be
completely clean. I want to thank you for your help,
support, and of course your website. I honestly could
not have done it, would not have even taken the first
step, if it wasn't for you. Keep it touch,..."
SP
(female)
"Hi Jorge, Good news. He is at Novas Medical Detox in
northwest Florida right now for 9 days. He went there on
Thursday. They got him off of Methadone using vitamins.
He seems to be happy. He is then going to that Zion
House I was telling you about right when he gets back.
Its a great feeling that he is finally taking the steps
to get and stay clean. Thanks for all your help. It
seemed so hopeless for such a long time and its great to
know that its finally going to be better. ... Hope your
doing good..." JL (sister helping brother)
UPDATE: "hey Jorge,... I told him he could come here and
he was very excited about that. .. I have already told
him that we need to find him a job in town,
we will
exercise a bunch and get fit, we will find him a councelor..."
JL (sister helping brother)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, So it has been going really great.
He came Tuesday night and Wednesday we had him go to a
substance abuse councilor I found... This is their
website. www.strongholdcounseling.com I think he really
wants to help " " and knows he can't afford it and is
happy that he wants to change. We also joined a gym
yesterday and went for an hour this morning at 6am
before I went to work. We are planning on going every
day. He has been catching up on some TV and relaxing for
the most part. I think he is still kind of worn out and
feeling the effects of being sober. We went to pick up a
few job applications for him yesterday and he filled
them out right when he got home... He has been sober for
2 weeks now... Talk to you soon,..."
JL (sister helping
brother)
UPDATE: "... its such a relief to have " " here and
healthy. He is doing good. We are still getting up early
and working out and I can tell he is much more alert,
high energy, talkative, compared to a week ago when he
moved in. I bought him a few books and 1 for me... He
says that he would never touch it again because getting
off of it was so bad and would never do it again...
Thanks again for all the advice..." JL (sister helping
brother)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, Thanks,... "" decided on his own
last night that the " " job is better... It really
worked out good for him. He applied to the " " and
hadn't heard anything from them and went in yesterday, "
and they pretty much recognized him and offered him the
job on the spot and he started training a few hrs later.
He works full time and gets benefits too. Other than
that everything has been going great. He is still seeing
his councelor and that is going good... Thanks for
everything..." JL (sister helping brother)
NEW UPDATE: Month 3 "Hey Jorge, Hows it going? Wanted to
let you know that things are still going good. """ has
been working... and has been catching up on his bills
and paying us for rent, groceries, etc. We have been
getting along great and """ and """ have get along good
too. It is almost like the last few years never happend,
he is totally his old self and happy again.
We are still
going to the gym, i have been getting on him to do
cardio - he just likes to lift weights lol. Thanks again
for all your advice, hope life is going good with
you...Talk to you soon..." JL (sister helped brother)
NEW UPDATE:
1 Year "Hey Jorge, Hope you are doing good.
Just an update..., he has been here in my town for
about a year now. No setbacks at all. He's doing good
working full time and part time at a 2nd job. He found a
nice roommate and moved out of my place a few weeks ago.
Really proud of him. Thanks again for your help along
the way, coudn't have done this without your advice.
Hope everything is good with you. Talk to you later,..."
JL (sister helped brother quit dope and turned his life
around)
"i am going on night 4 and thank you for your story and
help i read it all the time to help me...
i still been
going to na meetings for suport... and i just want to
say you have blessed alot of people... thanks..."
AN
(male)
"Dear SIr, I was a heroin user for 4 years..I have
stopped using the drug the last 50 days..I feel fine
right now.. I appreciate all your help and I would like
to let you know that your article gave me strength and
power to fullfill this everlasting task...I appreciate
your guidance and honestly you give me strength. It is
amazing how kind and helpful you have been..it shows
that man is still moral and that society foundations
still exist...i will consider everything you said...
Keep up the good work..we will stay in contact..cheers
and thanks again..Yours sincerely..." AA (male)
"Hey Jorge, This has been a great day. I don’t know what
to say……GOD never lets me down. Thank you so much...
I’m
on my 5th day without you know what and your email
reinforces GOD is by my side.... I feel very confident
in my decision to quit. It has to end!
I’ve been taking
4mg of suboxone a day and plan on tapering down to 2mg
Saturday. I will stop next Saturday and pray the
withdrawals will be manageable... Your website looks
great and it’s obvious your dedicated to helping others
fight the battle....Look forward to hearing from you..."
PR (male)
"HI jorge!!!nice too meet u..i just finish to read your
page and I found it very interesting and u give me the
best suggestion I ever had till now..I been trying and
fight agaist heroin... im 25 years old,...Is all ready 2
years,im addict, I gonna take attantion at all your
suggestion... I gonna do every thing u said this time
with out any meth o subotex...." ED (female)
UPDATE: "hey Jorge ciao,...
im already stop,....is 2
weeks now that i don't touch nothing..but with the
methadone ... i know that is worst of smack.. so'try to
go down with that and try to do different thing every
day..im working every afternoon this make me busy...
regards..." ED (female)
"hello mr fernandez, I have been on heroin for last 1
year, I only use it in ciggeratte but its slowly killing
all my assests and keeping my loved ones away from me,
therefore I have decided to quit it. I have found your
website very helpful and very encouraging... Its my day
1, I have just smoked my last ciggeratte and i am using
valium 10,..".. Yours sincerely,..." AA (male)
"thank you so much!! Your site is very supportive. Thank
you from me and all that this encourages. WE can do it.
I was clean for almost 3yrs. I can do this again. Thank
you Thank you Thank you!!!!!!!! ..." TS (female)
"Thanks for this amazing website. I just got through my
second day cold turkey - came clean to my family and am
leaning heavily on my friends in recovery for support.
You have given me so much hope and direction. Thanks and
God bless..." BF (male)
"Just wanted to give you an update.... Thanks to your
sincere email to me and your website, I am now on day 5
of being clean and I am absolutely positive
Heroin will
not be a part of my life anymore. It is 3:30 pm now, day
5 and even though withdrawals are BRUTAL(I quit cold
turkey) Losing almost 4 years of my life hurts even
more, but its all behind me now, I have a new life to
look forward to, and its soooo close, I feel like I can
almost touch it!.... I cant believe I did it!.. thanks
for all the information. Sincerely,..." LG (female)
"Hi, my brother has been smoking heroin for about 8
months. He finally came and asked for us to help him. I
printed off your advice cold turkey and he started, this
is day 2... Thanks..." AL (sister helping brother)
"Thank you for your site. It is helping me through my
"kick"... I decided that I was going to suffer this time
because I really should know better by now. More than
all of the advice (which you are full of excellent
advice), the encouragement you slipped in with it is
what really got me. Thank you again" JB (female)
UPDATE: "(11 months later) hi. :)... I am doing very
well,..! Still clean and I am going to nursing school
full time,... Your email actually couldn't have come at
a better time... Thanks for your time Jorge. It means alot :) ..."
JB (female)
"Dont know where to start..... everyday and my g/friend
has been a rock for me ... Any how in 2 days time i will
not have touch a drop of anything for 7 days (apart from
valiums which are a great help for sleep and to relax me
during the day).I found your site second day of being
back home and i think, i know i would have lapsed if not
for you and your web site! when totaly clean i will be
sharing your site and amazing info with others. thanks a
million i know i'm not there yet but onwards and upwards
looking forwards not back. thanks again for your tips
and info.!! thanks again for your amazing site."
SP
(male)
UPDATE:"Hi Jorge thanks for your quick reply & support!
i'm still clean still.... feel a million times
better.I'm running twice a day listenen to Rocky album
feel's like im sweating it out and feel better for it
mentaly. Your website has been talk of the week and a
massive massive help to me i really think i've cracked
it, i'm there, no turning back for me now...Once again a
big thanks to you! best wishes..." SP (male)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge, Its been a while since we last
emailed you, so thought I would give you an update on
how i'm getting on. which is good!! Thanks to you and
your messages you sent me and also your web page.
I have
not touched any thing since 20th may and feel much
better, it still cross's my mind... but i'm using mental
wealth to beat the demons.... i'm trying to help friends
that are in the same situation that i was which helps me
forward rather than backwards as i thought it might. i
find it quite rewarding, as i'm sure you can relate to.
Thank you for all your help and support,... i have been
keeping busy with work and starting up a new business
venture which is going well. thank you for your help in
my time of need it is more appreciated than you know.
thanks again..." SP (male)
UPDATE: "hi jorge its the girlfriend! :) " " is doing
great i'm so so proud of him, he has turned his life
around very quickly,started a new business and he looks
amazing, he is the man i fell in love with again,
its
like having a new boyfriend without having to get rid of
the old one!! his clean friends are about more for him
now they know he is clean which is really positive for
him, he goes out with clean friends and he is fun, out
going and much more loving now his life isn't the dark
solemn place it was 6 months ago..... once again i'm
proud of him for this, he is very honest with me(which i'm glad about as it wouldn't work otherwise),i don't
think he would be here where he is now if it wasn't for
your messages of support and the website provided so
much information,.... so my thanks go to you too, i cant
express my thanks enough!." J (girlfriend of SP)
"This is my first time trying to quit and I have to
quit.... I haven't used since Thurs night..."
JV
(female)
UPDATE: "I'm going to spend part of the day at a
friend's house. It was so hard but I came clean
and told
her everything. I spoke to """ and he is doing it too.
We are almost finished with Day 2! I'm broke for now but
I can't wait for my next paycheck on the 22nd so I can
spend it on something good for me! I appreciate all your
words of encouragement. It helps tremendously!"
JV
(female)
UPDATE: "So far Day 3 has been ok. A lot of trouble
sleeping but I did manage to get a couple of hours. Got
up and took a hot bath and that helped tremendously.
Right now I'm gonna put my makeup on and go see if I can
visit "".... . You have helped me so much with all your
words of encouragement." JV (female)
UPDATE: "Day 4...! I had to go to work and I've been in
a cold sweat since last night...I am hopeful that I will
be able to get my life and family back this summer...
But I do see the light at the end of the tunnel...."
JV
(female)
UPDATE: "Jorge, ...I felt so much better this afternoon
and evening.... I'VE taken hot baths....
I came clean to
a family member and friend today and they were both very
supportive.... Anyway, thanks for all your help Jorge. I
don' t think I could have done this without you."
JV
(female)
UPDATE DAY 7: "Jorge, I am so glad to say this but
I
slept the last two nights and my life feels like it is
slowly going back to normal. I feel so alive again after
only 7 days. The future looks so promising and
I am
working hard to get back on my feet again... this was my
first time to be addicted and I can say that it will
never happen again. Thank you so much for your words of
encouragement evryday. May God bless you abundantly." JV
(female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge! I am beginning
Day 27 - the time is
finally going by faster... I'm still trying... I have
been fighting the urge... I just wanted to let you know
that I am still hanging in there. thanks for being there
for me when I had no one." JV (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge,Well I finally made 40 days! I am so
proud of myself.... I have been getting up early,
exercising, staying busy, still taking long hot baths,
but still ... I am so relieved to make it to today.
Everyday I hope and pray that God will bring me a little
peace to my heart..." JV (female)
UPDATE: "I can't believe I missed it but
I have been
clean for over 2 months now! I remember counting the
days at first and how slow time was passing and now its
been more than 60 days.... It seems like another
lifetime that I was a heroin addict. I thank God
everyday... and that I saw your website. I don't think I
could have ever done it without you. All my friends and
family abandoned me... but you were there every step of
the way :) One day I hope to pay it forward..."
JV
(female)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge!! Remember me???
It will be 5 months
this week that I have been clean. I have been keeping
myself so busy by working 10 hr days and spending all
the extra money I seem to have since my whole check
doesn't go to getting high. It's a great feeling... I am
so thankful for all the support you have given me. Early
in my recovery it felt like you were the only friend I
had. Thank you so much... Love ya!..." JV (female)
NEW UPDATE:
Month 11 "Hey Jorge! I know I haven't
written in awhile but I have been busy working, working
out, ..., and working at staying clean....
it will be a
year since my last hit of heroin. Yay!!! I couldn't have
done it without you!!..." JV (female)
"hey thanks for getting back to me so quickly.. we have
both looked at your site and he is so positive about quiting and start living, we have found a N.A meeting
group which he keen to go to, also he is gonna see a
counsellor. im so glad ive found your web site, to began
i was hurt i had so much anger, your right heroin is
like the other woman the devil, i think those words
stopped me from walking away, i want to help him.
he
hasn't used today so were one day closer to being clean.
thanks again." JB (wife helping husband)
UPDATE: "hi jorge,just a quick update im so pleased to
say to u today my husband is 7 days clean, he even been workin with his dad, building, for the last two days,
feels so great to b at this stage i know we have away to
go yet, but we got through the 1st 7 days, with alot
help from yr site thanks for all your imformation. u
helpped to save his life and our marriage..."
JB (wife
helping husband)
UPDATE: "hi jorge, i just thought i give u a quick
update on how things were going for us... at long last i
can b sure he is clean, he has not used in 4 months,...
ive got my husband back, dont get me wrong i still watch
him, for the little changes, i dont think ill ever get
over his heroin addiction, and what it did to us, but
were workin through it, but the main thing he is clean, i just hope one day i can trust him again,t.... i hope
all is well in your world..." JB (wife helping husband)
"hi jorge, hows things?well "" is doing brilliant
he has
been clean of heroin for 2 weeks he found things hard at
first when he went on the methedone but is doing fab now
im so happy,... im supporting him and hopefully we can
get our relationship back on track i will keep you
updated thank you x..." LB (wife helping husband)
UPDATE: "hiya jorge hows things? i would love to let u
know that """ has been clean of heroin for 2 months now
and we have never got on better we are so happy as a
family again """ is feeling really strong.... im so
proud of him. i will defo keep u informed of how we r
all doing and thanx so much for all ur help and
support..." LB (wife helping husband)
NEW UPDATE:
"hi jorge, how are you? a little update " "
has been clean 6 months now... and
everything is
fantastic... the kids had so much fun :)
i wanted to
thank you for all ur help, you and your website really
helped us through THANK YOU... LB (wife helping husband)
"tomorrow is my first day, all the testimonials have
given me a little hope that i will be able to get thru
this process.i shoot from $150-$250 aday.
Im ready to
QUIT..." TH (male)
UPDATE: "Hey....I went to a rapid detox and got clean
like 4 months ago and haven't looked back, ...,
its a
diff life without the chase... its amazing
I haven't
felt this good in years, I wanted to stop so bad but I
just needed help, the place I went to was great, I still
talk with the nurses and the director... Yea man, cheers
to new life..." TH (male)
"Hey Jorge,Your site is great and really funny in an
uplifting way.... Today is day 2.., I know heroin is a
death trip and that if I continue on the path I was on I
am dead as fried chicken..., I am trying to do this...
I
know I have all the power to do this. I will try
running,.. Anyways, you take care."
MW (male)
UPDATE: "Thank you so much for writing me back. I
sincerely appreciate your words of advice and your
genuine compassion. I bought a bunch of gatorade and
harmless, neutral food. I also have Valerian, Kava and a
steady supply of wheatgrass, vitamins... I have come
clean to my parents and loved ones. I really want to get
past the physical part of this. Every time I see
something as normal as a basic sleep pattern happening I
get so charged, I cannot wait to return from this shadow
world. All the numbers are deleted, all my money and any
ways of getting cash are gone. I am going to exercise
until I puke. I am going to reread your schedules and
try to follow them as closely as I can. You are not
selling anything except freedom. All of my friends are
behind me. I cant say how much it means to me that you
wrote back and did so in such a comprehensive and
detailed way. TTys. Take Care." MW (male)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge,... I have been clean for 7 months
now... really the only thing that helped was imagining a
better life for myself and just staying away from
opiates, it was important to be patient with the
process.... Nowadays I have an amazing band...., I met a
beautiful girl and am in a much happier relationship, my
job is well,... I am happy... I began to enjoy
gardening, which is weird for a guy like me but also
oddly satisfying...go figure... the fact that there are
people out there like you who take the time to answer
emails and check in on the poor souls trapped in this
shadow world is a very pleasant thought to me. I wish
you the best of luck in your endeavors and thank you for
letting me share some of my thoughts on my experiences.
There are not many people who can understand what goes
on in the heart of an addict. May God,.. bless you. Take
good care..." MW (male)
"My best friend just came to me two days ago and told me
I had one choice, me or the drug.
Well, it's day one now
quitting cold turkey and this has inspired me. I'm going
to do it. Thank you so much for putting this web page
up. I'm going on my first hike today. Peace."
NS
(female)
UPDATE: "I just wanted to say thank you.
I quit cold
turkey and have been clean for months now. Now
I've
shown your website to a friend of mine who is struggling
to quit and I can only hope he finds it as helpful as I
did. What you are doing for people is a blessing. Thank
you so very much for saving my life." NS (female)
"I came across your site out of about thirty thousand
others and I just wanted to say that yours was the best
one that I read. The most helpful. And the most sincere.
Any other site just tells you some things to expect and
how to deal with it but with yours its like you are
right there helping along. Thank you for helping me.
This really changed my outlook on EVERYTHING..."
J
(male)
"Hi, finally today she has decided to go for treatment
which will take 12 weeks in "", I am very proud of her
and I hope this helps her as we have hit rock bottom at
this stage so please could you say a little prayer for
her that she gets through this" NC (female)
"I have been cleen for 6 days... thank you..."
JD
(female)
"hello jorge,i am good i got on the methadone and got ""
to get on it as well i have been doing okay so far it hAS BEEN A LITTLE OVER 2 WEEKS..
methadone is only
temporary its like my sobreity on training wheels....
i
just cut everyone off.. me and "" are getting closer
everyday we have been more family oriented lately... we
were honest with them and told them we wanted to change
needed their help they supported us all the way we
replaced our old friends with family members we are
either out with his family or mine or working so far so
good . i have not been so happy in so long i dont ever
want to make myself sick again thank you for your
support...." AM (female)
"hello i read your page and i found every question i had
in mind,im a heroine addict and i really want to quit... i just wanted to let you know that you really made me
wanna quit for good i wanna said thank you for the time
you took to make this page it really helps today i will
start quiting cold turkie wish me good luck...once again
thank you very mush and god bless you." RR (male)
UPDATE: "hey brother thanks for answering back... i read
the letter you wrote me to my wife an she also is going
to help me too she knows im very commited to quit plus i
slowed down alot, thank you very mush for keeping in
touch. God bless you always and keep up the good work.
Your new friend" RR (male)
UPDATE: "Hey bro... gracias a DIOS me va bien
llevo
limpio 7 semanas (7weeks clean), mi hermano y yo nos
cogimos unas vacaciones para "" y estuvimos por alla una
semana y aproveche y rompi vicio todo el tiempo lo pase
metido en un jacuzzi con el agua a 101 grado y no me fue
tan mal pase trabajo dormiendo pero ya duermo bien
tengo
nuevas amistades y coji muchos de tus consejos
cambie el
numero de telefono, te quiero dar las gracias por averte
preocupado por mi... tu me escuchasters y me motivastes
tu fuistes una gran piesa en mi recuperamiento thanks
ones again bro and GOD bless you always. ill just try to
stay strong and clean one day at the time..."
RR (male)
"this is my 5 day... is all good cause
im going to do
this no matter what do or die 4 real .i been doing this
cold turkey... i been battling... im going to try my
best is not easy but i can do it... and thanks 4 the
info.." CT (male)
"Thank you.....your words and articles are the only
thing keeping me going. I printed the pages and left
them on his dresser with a few family photos. I am
hoping that having a calm convo will help me to know if
he is serious or not about quitting again. I will try
again. I will give him your email as well. I just hope
he really does want to get well... I have his bank
cards, changed his cell # ... I will hope that tomorrow
goes better and that we can start again. Thank you
again. It brings me to tears to just get a response from
you.... And also... I have been testing him at home and
that's how I found out he was back to H....I am
trying...I really am" JM (wife helping husband)
UPDATE: "thank you for talking her off the bridge and
giving her some understanding of what i'm going through
. i quit cold turkey last week . the withdrawls were
pretty bad ....never ever did i think this would happen
to me... im on day 3 with out her(H) and im getting
there... this is no more of a menal fight for me and i.m
pissed off. i will win this and i.m determand... your
literacher has help alot ........" AM (husband)
UPDATE: "I'm trying to take it a day at a time. I'm
proud of myself today. I went through the bigest mental
fight. I won today. Looking to do the same tomorrow.
Not loseing my family over this.... I'm a winner and going
to keep it that way." AM (husband)
UPDATE: "Hey, its day 5 and I'm feeling good. I think
things are going to be ok . I have no desire for h.
I
see the light at the end of the tunnel. The thing for me
was taking a piss test this moring and it comming up
clean. To see the happiness in her face motivates me
even more . I'm gonna be ok ." AM (husband)
UPDATE: "Almost day 6... Still pushing through but not
sleeping well. I wanna sleep.. I'm exhusted.... But wide
awake... I've been active and being physcal .. ."
AM
(husband)
UPDATE: "Yeah , I'm doing everything I can
I stay busy.
Keep my mind clear. Today is heavy ,
but I'm pushing
through. Youve been a huge help getting me through this.
You should pat ur self on the back becuase ur saving my
life at this point . And u don't even know me . And
that's amazing......" AM (husband)
UPDATE: "Thanks man I needed that. Thanks. I'll let you
how those supplements work out. I'm fighting like a pitbull. Just wanna feel good again man.
I want my life
back and I wanted it back yesterday. This has got to go asap... Thanks for listening."
AM (husband)
UPDATE: "hey jorge , Day 7 today .
I feel good . i got 2
days of sleep with those supplements. there's no looking
back , and no way i'm ever ever gonna touch that ...
again . i realize this now . reality kicked in now and
realized how much damage i caused in 8 months and now
i'm gonna pick up the pieces and be the man i was the
man i used to be and strive to be the man i still want
to be . i'm gonna make it . just got to clean up the
mess and so motivated to do so . i'm going to start
therpy on tuesday. THANK YOU for everything because of
someone who gave a ... saved me and my family . i got it
from here.... i'm ready to fight the rest of my life and
matbe one day i have the oppertunity to help someone
like how you helped me !!! belive that brother !!!"
AM
(husband)
"Hi,I am a heroin addict now for the about 9 years, I'm
at my wits end...I'm clean for two days now..."
VM
(male)
"hi Jorge, Just recently i came clean to my parents. i
cant tell you how devestating but at the same time a
relief. i have not had any heroin for 48 hours at the
moment. i feel like im free again even though i know im
not there yet.i cant tell you how much you've helped. as
soon as i came clean to my parents i showed them your
website and i think it helped them understand a little
what its like to be an addict. thanks Jorge"
JG (male)
"Hello Jorge,..He has been here in our home since
yesterday morning...So far he has made it 40 hours w/o
heroin... This is the longest he has made it. We are
praying he will go all the way this time. Last night I
read him quite a bit of info from your website. He was
convinced that he couldn't do this w/o suboxone but
after listening to what you wrote he now understands
that suboxone is not the only way. Today we are going to
try to follow your day planner as close as we can. Thank
you Jorge for caring enough to put together this site!"
SG (mother helping son)
UPDATE: "Hello Jorge, I'm writing with good news.
"" has
been clean now for 9 days! Yeah! He had a couple of
rough days but with the assistance of the information
you provided on your website and a few supportive meds
and he made it through detox. He was so convinced that
he couldn't do it without suboxone, but after reading
your material he gave it a go and now he is free from
ALL drugs. He started a local outpatient program
yesterday and while he says it's "boring", he knows he
needs to attend it as staying clean will be the hard
part. His father and I are very proud of him. Thank you
once again Jorge for caring enough about helping people
to put together such an informative/fabulous website. I
know it helped save ""'s life..." SG (mother helping
son)
NEW UPDATE: Month 6 "Hey Jorge, It's been quite a while
since I last wrote to you. I wanted to update you on
""". He has been clean now for over 5 months. Yes,
that's right over 5 months... He has
surprised us all in the best way possible. It hasn't
always been easy for him but he stuck to it this time...
Thank you for the part that you played in """ sobriety.
I hope you continue your mission to help the thousands
more lost soles rid themselves of this evil drug. God
Bless." SG (mother helping son)
"Bueno jorge...yo sufrio mucho con esta adiction y e
rompio muchas amistades y e perdio la confiaza de mi
familia...bueno voy a cojer tu consejo y voy atratar de
quitarme cold turkey por q quiero q mi familia buerva a
confiar en mi por q estranllo el hombre q llo era
estranllo todo. gracias por todo y espero q halludes
muchas personas como yo...." JL (male)
"G'day Jorge, read your site and decided now is the time
to change." MF (male)
"Hi jorge, Just wanted to say thank you so much for
your emails to me and especailly to "" I can see he
really took your words in and I'm happy to see him
pushing even harder now. My prayers might not be worth
much but you really are in them I don't know how we
would have managed without you. I hope we get through
this with your help and mine I think I know he can.."
NT
(wife helping husband)
"Its my third day today I don't think I have the
strength to be positive or to go through with it but
I'm
trying..." OW (husband)
UPDATE: "he is going through withdrawls,
ive surronded
him with things to make him think positively, pictures
and just quotes to remind him he can do this if he wants
to. i reallly really hope that this time this is it, i
dont know if i have another round in me..i hope..pray
this is it...end of day 5.."
NT (wife helping husband)
UPDATE: "Hey bro, today I've reached day 7 and am
feeling much better physically and mentally... I think
the worst is over.. I would like to thank you for
helping me and my wife in fighting the leech that was
sucking my life away appreciate everything bro thanks a
lot" OW (husband)
UPDATE: "Hey bro thanks for your last feed back am on
day 9...." OW (husband)
"just a note to thank you for the info on your
website... i'm ready to quit, so tired of this lifestyle
and want to get my interests back, ya know. want to
finally feel like waking up in the morning and having a
*normal* day. so badly want to get rid of this lethargy
too. it's 2:45 am, did my last bag, i'm going to use all
of your suggestions, particularly trying to stay
active...i need that and hope it will help.
you're so
right about the music... thanks again for creating this
site. i'll be using it often as i can as i go through
this. take care of yourself" C (female)
"You have the best web site ever to help me understand
the cold turkey process. He is determined to end his
addiction starting today and with your web-site i
understand what he is willing to do in order to save our
relationship..., so i know how to help him to win this
battle. Thank you again, i wish you the best."
AM (wife
helping husband)
"Thank you so much Jorge for you responce...this info
was so good for me to read..it just confermed everything
i new...so bless you lots, and you are being a great
blessing to many people who read your testimony...ps, Im
glad I have found someone to talk to about this..than
you again." AD (female counselor helping girl)
"Jorge,Thanks for the site.My friends don't see it but
you've changed my life. thanks you!"
JT (male)
"Hi Jorge, You've got a brilliant website goin here.
You've got some great ideas about passing time, using
music and films to stay motivated. I'm definitely goin
to use your tips this time. I'll be goin cold
turkey,.just wanted to say Hi and thanks." LG (female)
"Wow! You offer a very realistic approach! Many of the
things you mention I myself have felt like doing when
I've tried to kick... Like running! It can feel like you
are almost forced into running - almost like you are
running from it. Can't sit still at all. And the hot
tub. Anyhow... I came across your site and found it to
be one of the most truthful explanations of what I have
been through when attempting to quit... I can't believe
you are doing all of this for free." DK (male)
UPDATE: "I have been clean from Methadone now for nearly
2 months. I can not emphasize what I'm about to say
enough: YOU HAVE TO ACTUALLY WANT TO QUIT TO QUIT.
There's no other way. You do not have a disease. If
anything or anyone or any idea tells you quitting is
beyond your control then it's a lie. I looked back on
all my fears. All my wasted days of waiting for dealers,
having dope be the #1 thing on my mind at all times,
etc. Quitting dope is hard but the payoff is feeling
normal for the rest of your life without any worry and
without having to do anything to get to that normal. You
mention doing healthy things and this is so true! I
think once again anyone wanting to quit needs to have
all the help they can get and environment is very
important. Having a warm environment and lots of water
and stuff. Sun and warmth. I sometimes wonder if it was
the reasons I've described to you at all and not 'divine
intervention'." DK (male)
"ok my man , iam ready to try your method of detox and
recovery. every nite for the last week i have gone to
your site and studied it. now tommrow monday i will
start. i have a 300 doller a day habit yes thats rite
3-4 bndls a day. so i know i am in for it . but this
time i just feal diffrent. ... it's get clean or die. thats ware i am at."
RP (male)
"hi. god your site has been amazing for me - all the
things i believe written down in one place. the time is
right i want to be free for all the reasons we both know
and are too long to list. i am praying the fact thet i
want it more than life itself will let god help me
overcome it once and for all. your site has been just
what i need to give me a realistic view of whats ahead...".
MD (female)
"Dear Jorge, I printed the whole website and put
together a notebook and I just got back from the postoffice I am overnighting the package to """. I told
her not to force him as I have confidence in him that
his curiosity will get the best of him and he will read
it. He said he wants to quit...I can only pray that this
time he really wants to quit. Thanks so much for your
support and guidance... you are inspiring to me and I
know with you and your website we can do this. Thanks
again for all you do your are a true angel."
SZ (mother
helping son)
"Hi Jorge,... He came clean to me and his family wanting
help and it has been devastating to all of us.
He hasn't
used for about 2 days. I know he wants the help and is
going to meetings...." AG (female helping boyfriend)
"hello jorge, i would like to thank u for reading my
email my husband has not had heroin for 2 days he is detoxing himself... thanx to u and ur website i wouldnt
have had a clue about wot to do with any of this. yours
sincerely..." LB (wife helping husband)
"Hello, I am going to a friends to give up heroin.... I
have looked at your website and think the best way is to
go with nothing.. no methodone or other alleviating
options. I have 7 days to beat as much of the withdrawal
as possible. Your ideas for the first 7 days seem to be
a great idea . i have given my friend the website and
hope to really try to follow your regime... i am going
to try really really hard to follow the ideas.. your
website covers loads... can i also say well done to you
and thank you for such an inspirational website.. thank
you." SW (female)
UPDATE: "i am on day 3. i am so lethargic and sick all
the time when will it get a little better..i cant stand
it..." SW (female)
UPDATE: "on to day 5 feeling a tiny bit better ...
finally eating a little bit of food... trying trying but gotta go home soon...
must be strong.. thank you for
giving me some support." SW (female)
UPDATE: "hello again!!!!! i am still alive....
day
7!!!!!! i am already much much much better... however i
am very very emotional (tears of regret tears of
achievement and tears for all the amends i am gonna do.)
i am goin to spend every day for the rest of my life
making the people in my life know how much they mean to
me...i did what you said...my mum turned up and knew
something was not right.. i wasn gonna tell her i knew
how hurt she would be and how scared she would be... but
i thought how am i gonna stay clean if i don... so we
had it out...but then there was the hug that i so needed
from my mum and her utter support...-i sure do get
exhausted quick.,....i really am tryin to eat...i am
trying hard to get vitamins and minerals...i really cant
thank you enough for bothering to reply to my emails it
has helped me to know someone is out there."
SW (female)
UPDATE: "just a quickkie..i walked a mile... whooo hoooo!!
and i didnt sit down or stop - darn exhausted now!!
every day is getting bettter...i am very much hoping to
be back to reasonable fitness and possible runnning and
cycling again within 3 weeks - today was the first sign
that my body is recovering and i went to a meeting
yesterday - but the best news yet is that after driving
40mile to a meeting outta town by time i got back very
tired...." SW (female)
UPDATE: "although it is 4am and the world is asleep i
have had 6 hours sleep and i am on day 9!!! i thank my
angel for helping me cos something or someone must have
helped me have the strength to do this cos it is so
hard...but so relieved that i am not thinking about how
to get out to score or where to get money from...
although i was determined to do this i dont think i
really believed it would happen... I am going to spend
every day of the rest of my life making good the wrongs i have done and keeping myself clean....love..."
SW
(female)
UPDATE: "ello, as usual a messsage from you gives me a
bit of hope and relief that there is some understanding
out there... the time now is 5.53am can you believe
that! for once it is daylight instead of night when i
awake... my body has responded well to sleep...
have
even woken up stronger this time..."
SW (female)
UPDATE: "hi again. well today is day 11... evryday is
similar very emotional and despondant at first then
after a few hours begin to ease into my skin if that
makes sense.. i know i am getting better ... i look
better my eyes are normal now... i even feel a bit
pretty again... beginning to finally!! change my clothes
have been wearing the same baggy jumpers for days i am
even wearing a t-shirt today - bare arms o me god!
so
today day 11 got better as i know now this is the
pattern i shall try to stay awake til 10.30pm then have
bath then go bed and just maybe i will awake with the
birds instead of the night train.. gotta stay
positive,... at 11.30am i drove about 30mile to """ for
my 3rd na meeting but 2nd time at this place. i think
they could not believe i was the same person as last
week on day 4!!! got home and have forced myself to do a
whole hour of ironing (lots more to do) and about to do
dinner.... yes i am tired but idle hands and minds
wander and i recognise i have a lot to catch up
on...hope you had good day too..." SW (female)
UPDATE: "day 12 and counting and proud...well it seemed
staying up and keeping busy has achieved the miracle of
sleep...bed be 10.45 awake at 5am... now that is a good
sleep... just over 6 hours should be more than
adequate... .. you know every day is a miracle.. i think
back a week ... i couldn get home still sick, real weak,
scared like rabbit in headlights, looked half crazy and
fearful.... now i sit here my legs are stonger i can
stand for longer, proved that last night... although
scared i am no longer paralysed in the fear..... skin is
coming back to usual colour and texture, eyes bright,
hair soft, mind alert not fuggy... am able to think of
other things than the past because i now have a
future....my tummy can take small amounts of food ....
this could have been a different story .. a story of
ultimate loss and a coffin but it aint and it will not
become that no way i am going to be the winner i am
going to win the battle every damn day...a week ago cold
turkey..2 week ago how the hell am i gonna get the money
this time..3 week ago sitting on a corner road waiting
for some dumb "" dealer and yes give him all my money
and get treated like ""... always waiting , waiting ,
waiting... 4 week ago no money going cold scared """ how
can i get the money.. nick it , borrow it is there
anyone left to borrow from? sell something... i found it
though no way i wanted to be gear sick...5 week ago i
can do this somehow - kidding myself as usual...6 week
ago desparate , miserable, know for sure i am in big big
trouble... begin the plan have no idea if i will follow
it through we all know how easy it is to say when on H -
i am gonna do this , that or the other but i can do
it..yeah right in the bubble anything is possible til
the realisation hits you that this is it.. no more.. oh
well get another bag plan this better etc etc and round
and round and round it goes the cycle of ever decreasing
circles til finally there really is nothing...me...
anything is possible... anything is possible and i aint
in no bubble no more. i am feeling everything and
embracing it... I am living...thank you jorge..day 12
the start... yeessssssssssssss!" SW (female)
UPDATE: "day 13 and yee har bed at 10pm thought no way
is this gonna happen had been dozing on and off from
9ish but awoke at 6am to daylight - yeah really ...but
even better than that i threw back the covers and smiled
then went down stairs like a normal person... yes i am
convinced there is some strength in my legs that was definatley not there before and my back is feeling more
normal - has been very painful... is this a turning
point? you know what i dont care if i just have today
free from lethargy then boy oh boy i am gonna make the
most of it...also i dont think i am as emotional i feel
strong i feel good i feel i could face doing some work
today.. i am goin to do that today." SW (female)
UPDATE: "hi...strength seems to be increasing and
finally my mind beginning to do the job it normally does
... have not been so close to tears today thankfully...
thank you jorge for being a sounding board for me...have
a great day or night or whatever you are about to
do...think of me tomorrow send good vibes i am gonna
need em..." SW (female)
UPDATE: "hiya..still very much alive,
more alive than i
have been for so long.... work is tough really tough...
but i am managing and not lettin it rule my life...i am
now on day 24 and i just cant believe that only 25 days
ago i thought my life was over and couldn see how i was
gonna sort it out... i have waves of real scaredness
that this is all a dream and i am gonna wake up in my
old life...but i know this is real...
i am beginning to
feel things again and i think i am finally connecting
... i have laughed a lot this weekend... also get
this... i went on a date... and even though nervous it
was good to meet just as we were no enhancements...
anyway next day we went walking somewhere else very
beautiful for another 3 odd hours ... and
2night we went walkin for a couple of hours... cant believe my body
capable of walking the miles ive walked!.. so i will see
what happens and just enjoy the day/s... i dont even
think about that stuff very often and when i do it is
not with any fondness it just robbed me of my life....i
am still getting proper help and it is hard work doing
it all...i want to thank you because you are so
supportive and open....from a happier stronger SW living
life.. x" SW (female, quit heroin, stayed clean and
turned her life around)
"Hi Jorge, It has been a week since my husband last
touch that 'thing'. Im glad it's working. Thank You so
much for creating the website. I was lost until I found
you. Thank you so much..*hugs*" DR (wife helping
husband)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge, Its been 30 days now... my husband is
coping well. He said his body is no longer aching...Thanx
alot." DR (wife helping husband)
"please help.. reading your site has made me feel like
i
can do this... i'm only on day 2 ... i've got thru 2day
by waking round the house listening to my mp3 player it
real has helped and killed alot of time..." SM (male)
UPDATE: "Thanks for your advice. i'm on day 2... but
with your advice i'm guna do it. i aint got a quitting
buddy would love your support thanks." SM (male)
UPDATE: "Thanks for your quick reply means alot as no
one else to speak to. Day 3 now still clean. .... I'm
lay in bed now listening to my mp3 player upliftin songs
mostly. as i've just took your advice ..hot bath...
feeling a little better today then i did yesterday my
legs aint as bad and not as many hot and cold swets.
your site is by far the best i've found and trust me
i've been lookin. Thanks again for all your help and
advice." SM (male)
UPDATE: "Morning jorge day 4 now still clean i think i
might of even got 30 mins sleep last night but seem to
get to hot in my sleep... But i'm feelin stronger each
day cant eat or sleep and still restless legs but i'm
gettin there i've made it this far no way i'm turnin
back now. Thanks again for all your support. Look
forward to hearing from you. I cant get over how much
you help people like me you dont know me and live so far
away but yet you've helped me more that anyone else.
I'm determin to do this..."
SM (male)
UPDATE: ".. i've been takin multivitamins and mineral
tablets and tried to drink alot of water. then have a
walk to the shops to get some eggs and try eating them
hard boiled like you said. Thanks again i am goin to do
this in fact i'm am already doing it and starting to
feel like i'm almost there. Just hope i manage to get
some sleep b4 i go back to work. As if its 16 years
since you went throu this yet every day you've been
there for me guilding me throu the hardist time of my
life. You dont know how much you've helped me i couldn't
of done this without you. Thanks again."SM (male)
UPDATE: "Day 5
still goin strong got a few hours sleep
this morning... I dont feel to bad today... might see if i can go till tomoz. I feel like i'm goin to do this and
at the min i feel like i'm winning the fight. Thanks
again for all your help.." SM (male)
UPDATE: "day 6 today i'm starting to feel better not as
restless or felt as ill and starting to be able to eat
again... ..Time is starting to go faster now the days dont seam as long... I've just had 2mg of sub today and
feel ok apart from my mood swings. Learning to control
my thoughts really has helped with cravings. If i think
of h i think of how ill its made me and i neva want to
be that ill again instead of thinkin it will make things
better i know it will make things worse. I'm not at all
tempted to score. Whey. Anyway thanks again".
SM (male)
UPDATE: "Day 7 and starting to feel better.
Just been avin 2mg of sub's per day for last 2 day's and feeling
ok now...As the days gone on been feelin better well
i
started feelin better after a long walk followed by a
hot bath. Lol it really helps my legs.. hoping to get
some good few hours sleep tonight. Wish me luck lol.
Thank again". SM(male)
UPDATE: "Morning jorge how are you today.
Its day9 now i've even managed to go in work today was dreading it
this morning but now i'm here its not too bad. Lol it's
almost good to be back.lol i'm starting to feel more
normal than i have in a long time...i'm trying to just
take 2mg a day and then guna Try and hold out as long as
i can and take it every other day... Just thought i'd
say thanks coz couldn't of done this without your help."
SM (male)
UPDATE: "Hello jorge how are you today its
day 12 now it
was my 2nd full day back at work today. I'm feelin ok
now starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel
all the pains av gone now but still get the chill's
sometimes.... Lol but its not that Bad its nothing
compared to how i was a week ago. My sleep is slowly gettin
better i'm gettin 4 maybe 5 hours a night now.
I'm feelin good again really. i even saw my mate the
other day... i said no and didn't have any my mate was
well impressed. Lol so was i first time i've managed to
say no in years. Lol but i did it i'm guna stay away
from him now tho until he's clean it messed with my head
too much i don't wanta be near temptation... i wan2 to
stay clean for good... thanks for your help i couldn't
of done this without you. I showed my mate your site
as
he cant get online he was well impressed with it he's guna print it off and follow your advice as now he
admits he been tryin the wrong way as he normaly just
lay's in bed all day every day feelin ill and sorry for
him self like i used too. I told him to show his mum
your site and the helpin your son quit as i really think
it will help them both anyway thanks again..." SM (male)
UPDATE: "i'm feelin good today
day 13, work seems to get
easier every day.. There are so many site's out there
with so much bad advice they almost make you feel like
you cant do it or that you need to take loads of meth
for years or 16+mg of sub's every day and most of it is
rubbish. When i went the doc's last year he said i would
need at least 16mg subs per day and now i know that was
rubbish after being on them for 5 months i relap's and
went back to using for almost another year untill i
found your site. ...Unlike a lot of site's out there.
You give so much good advice on how to feel better
mentally and how to deal with they wd's and pain's and
most importantly make the time fly by and not lay in bed
clock watching feelin sorry for ya self. I cant get over
its day 13 already i feel like i've won the battle but i
cant let my gaurd down coz the war aint no where near
over yet. But your site gives me the strength to keep on
fighting this horrid situation. When i feel weak i read
your site and feel strong again. I wish i could help
people like you have helped me. Thanks again... bet you
have changed so many lives for the better by giving
people there life back and stoppin them from being a
slave to H..." SM (male)
UPDATE: "Alright jorge how ya doing
day 17 today yesterday was my first day with no sub's and when i woke
up this morning still felt ok so not had any today well
not yet anyway guna try and stop taking them
now...things are starting to feel better and things are
looking up for once. Lol. I cant believe how well i'm
doing in such a short time i can't mess it up now. Defo
cant mess it up now. Anyway thank for your help just
thought i'd give you an update..." SM (male)
UPDATE: "I'm feelin good now yeah its a month and a day.
Well 29 days.. I've been staying away from my mate well
not seen him so dont get tempted...but i did speak to
him the other day because he texted me a few days ago
telling me he has come clean to his mum told her all
about it and your site.... Lol Remember my first email
tellin you about how things got that bad... Whey.
Its
mad having money i can spend on what i like again as i
used to spend it all on that.... so i didn't get ill. I
couldn't of made it this far without you ya know. I've
tried so many times in the past and failed every time i
neva even made it to day 5 well apart from when i got a
script and was only coz they give me 2 8mg sub's a day
well too much imho. But look at me now made it to day 29 wi just 7 sub's. See all i needed was someone who knew
what they where talkin about to point me in the right
direction and a friendly few words of wisdom. You
brought back my will power and self beleaf and
in turn i'm gettin my life back. I think the best advise i could
give anyone on how to quit would be to read your site
and speak to you. Anyway thanks again for all your
help..." SM (male, quit heroin, stayed clean and turned
his life around)
"Hi,.. have just read your site, and am just about to
give my support to my son-in-law, he is going to go cold
turkey, we are both going to read your site together,
take all your advice,.." KP (mother helping son-in-law)
"Dear Jorge Please let me exspress yet again how thank
full i am that my motherinlaw found you. Even my key
worker try'd to disswade me from going ahead with a
solid detox... I've been taking hot baths and doing the
odd bit of strechtess as often as i can also im takeing
the odd diasipan along with ibruffin. I did try to run
away yesterday because i wanted to get a df or 2 and i
got to my car started and even put it in too gear but
my motherinlaw managed to talk me out of it. im still not
feeling 100% but each day is getting better...and today i feel like going to go to town for a little walk i
really am feeling so optomistic now that im in day three
and im still alive ha ha but sereuse jorge thank you so
much and i only hope i can do the same for other pepole
like us because all the goverment wants to do is put you
on a meth program without any true help.I mean this from
the bottom of my heart you are a one in a million top
noch bloke so once again thank you and i look forward to
talking again soon. so for now take care and thnk you.
youres faithfully..." T (male)
"Hi Jorge, I'm writing to tell you that I finally did go
to my doctor yesterday and came completely clean with
her and she was so supportive! I wanted to thank you for
your advice to go and tell her because I'm not sure I'd
of had the guts without your encouragement and the
support of my family. Thanks," SR (pregnant female)
"My Dear, thanks alor for your help! i have a good new
to tell u.. i went to a hospital and had the treatment,
its been for 5 days that im out of it.."
ER (female)
"Hi Jorge. Thank you so much for your advice. You are
right, and I know it... I have
followed your advice so far, by deleting bad contacts,
even changing my phone #. Also picked up Gatorade, eggs,
and vitamins, and am listening to new music. I know this
will be a HUGE battle. In my research, yours was the
only one that has detailed, helpful information that
gave me hope that I WILL beat this. You are such a great
person to be helping others go through what you did. I
have such admiration and respect for you. Thank you,".
LE (female)
UPDATE: "Hello Jorge. I am not feeling too super... but
have instead, decided to rake and bag leaves, mabe
go
for a bike ride. Anyway.. I think my mind is my worst
enemy. So, raking leaves, excercise, some
hot water,
puking, and sleeplessness, here I come!...thanks for
your advice, and of course, being my buddy... I am doing
it! LE (female)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge... Well, i m still here. I told my
husband, and he s being as supportive as I think he
knows how. I ve had a pretty tough day today. It s
raining, so I literally had to drag myself out of bed,
and do jumping jacks, sweep/mop the floor,
walking
around the house, etc..,for excercise... chills come and
go... I never want to feel like this again.... Well,
thnx. Gotta go for now..." LE (female)
UPDATE: "First off, I wanted to take the time to thank
you for all your support thus far. You really are the
only support I have. Thankfully, the xanax i m
prescribed, (only at night), help me sleep a little, but
i m still up all night off and on. I think i m gonna try
that Valerian I saw in one of the testemonials I read.
Well, time to get on with it. Jorge, thank you again.
You are saving lives, and if I could hug you I would,
because you seem to be my only friend right now, and
your encouragement is really helping me keep my sanity.
Again, my many thanks to you, and well wishes..." LE (female)
"I'm so glad I came past your site. I'm only on day 4 of
weaning myself with suboxones (down to 2mg), I know I
have a battle a head of me, but your site is helping to
give me to the courage to fight. You will be my friend
for the next week...I've done it before and this time it
will be for good. I'm doing this for me. Will let you
know of my progress in the days to come." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Thank you Jorge, you have a heart of gold. Five
days of not doing dope is pretty damned good for me,
even if on subs. Feels good to be stringing days
together; it's just making me stronger for the days
ahead. Only been on them since Monday, been weening
myself down 2mg a day,.... I'm hoping this will help to
at least lessen the sickess a bit. Going to a meeting
today, put the T.V. in my room, going for a walk,
buying
my soup,... Thanks for the suggestion of taking
walks...I am petrified but excited to think about how
much better things will be when I kill this awful
dragon, and thank God that day is coming within reach.
Thank you for your support and quick replies. It is a
Godsend to have someone on the other side to converse
with while you are kicking on your own." MP (female)
UPDATE: "You are an amazing person to help people get
through this experience. Not too many people have this
much compassion. I'm not going to lay in bed, I've got
some amazing hiking trails to explore around my house
and this is just the time to take advantage of them...
stringing together dope-free days is becoming an
obsession in itself. I know I will crave but the freedom
on the other side at this point is far more appealing.
If you told me just a week ago I could go 5 days without
dope I would have thought you were crazy... I'll let you
know of my progress in the days to come. Once again,
thank you for the honesty and encouraging emails, they
are a lifesaver." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Day 6 and still standing!...
Went to a great NA
meeting last night, decided to do 90 in 90 no
matter how... I feel this week. I am NOT laying around the house
today; taking that $8 I'd give to dope man normally and
going tanning, going for a walk along the river,
cleaning my room and going to a meeting tonight. I told
a few non-drug doing friends what I did and they gave me
a great deal of encouragement...telling me that I am a
beautiful person and it's OK for people to fall down as
long and they get up, brush themselves off and learn
from their mistakes.... I'm building a support system of
people to call or write to...." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Day 7,
no sub today, only took 1mg yesterday.
Started yawning and tearing a little in the meeting last
night but the cold medicine really works...I think
the
cough suppresant helps with the yawning too..for some
reason I have energy. I think all of these "" opiates
are really starting to come out of me and while it's
scary to think of life without chasing my drug every day
I feel great... On the plus side, I'm finding that
without dope or subs my cigarettes taste and feel nasty.
Going to try to occupy myself today...I'm going to do my
best." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, how are you? Thank you for being
here for me and all of H-addicts who found your site in
the pursuit of getting clean. I'm on day 18 of doing no
heroin. I decided to taper down from the subs more
slowly, reducing every four days instead of every day.
I've also plugged myself into NA. I go to meetings every
day, am reading the literature and have been making
friends with people who have clean time from this and
all drugs. Even calling them and picking them up for
meetings." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, how are you?
I'm on day 22 today.
I'm on day 2 of taking 1mg of suboxone. In 2 days I will
go down to .5mg. By going to NA meetings every day,
making new clean friends, sharing and reading the Basic
Text I can already feel that my thinking is being
re-wired in a positive way. My drug behaviors are being
changed... Thank you again for being there for us heroin
addicts. I know a drug is a drug but I do believe that
heroin and opiate addicts do need support from each
other because this drug is a monster." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey there Jorge, on
day 36 today! Picked up my
30 day key-tag and it felt great. I'm down to .25subs
every other day. Haven't taken any since yesterday
morning at 7am. I'm taking lots of Imodium, drinking a
ton of Gatorade and water, eating,... my L-Tyrosine, and
lots of vitamins. I'm walking everywhere which is
helping with the fatigue. Honestly, without your support
and the people in NA I would never be doing this. You
have been a great source of help and friendship to me
through out this process and I am forever grateful. You
are a wonderful person for helping other opiate addicts
get to the other side... Thank you again." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, just wanted to let you know I'm
grateful to be on day 42 without heroin. I've also been
off of the subs for 3 days (jumping off at .25 every
other day) and I'm feeling great. Not even a chill at
this point. No depression, no wd, nothing. I'm sleeping
and I have energy as well. I feel like my old pre-heroin
self again... I'm going to an NA barbeque tomorrow,
hanging out with clean friends today and going to a
meeting tonight. I want to say thank you again for being
there for me. You're right, I can take credit for being
willing to walk the path but without the help from you,
the God of my understanding and NA I would not have had
a clear path on which to walk." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge! How are you? I know I haven't
written in a while but I just wanted to let you know I
pick up my 60 day key-tag tomorrow. I feel great! I'm
feeling the PAWS a little bit but it's only manifested
itself as minor sleep problems and feeling lethargic in
the morning. Other than that I feel amazing.
I wake up
needing no bags of dope to feel normal; what a blessing!
The desire to use has been lifted....., no cravings of
any kind. Going to "" this weekend to hang out with a
clean friend ..... It's amazing, when one door closes
five more open. I want to thank you again for being
there for me. Enjoy your weekend!" MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey there Jorge! How are you? Guess what?
I'll
have 90 days clean on Saturday! Can't believe I'm making
it. I'm in NA, back in school full-time... I think that
sometimes the right people appear in our lives for the
right reasons. I have a ton of new, clean friends and am
happy to report that the obsession to use has been
lifted and that my life is already turning itself
around. Sure, I still have family stress and I'm
cleaning up a few messes I made while getting high but
that's nothing compared to the despair that shooting
dope brought to my life. I want to thank you again...the
support that you provided to me during that frightening
time when I was detoxing as well as the faith you had in
me that I could indeed do this is priceless. I tell
people in the rooms struggling with dope addiction about
you and your amazing website all of the time. I know
that I played a part in getting clean but you are a
beautiful human being. Just know that while many people
relapse there are people like me out there who's life
you played a huge part in saving." MP (female)
UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, how are you? I'm happy to report
that I have over 5 months clean now.
My sleep is back to
normal;.... I am in NA which is a huge support for me. I
can't tell you how important it was to ditch the old
using friends and make new, clean ones.... I wouldn't go
back to that life for all of the money in the world. I
want to thank you again for being there for me in my
darkest hour. I couldn't have done it without you; the
information you provide on your site is so right on that
it enabled me to get clean without going to rehab...a
miracle in itself. The support and encouragement you
provide is vital as well. If I can do this anyone can.
Thanks again!..." MP (female)
NEW UPDATE: "Hey Jorge, how the hell are you? Guess
what? Nine months tomorrow! Yay! Things are working out
exactly the way they are supposed to.... I have an
amazing sponsor, amazing network, tons of clean friends,
a far better relationship with my family and school let
me back in :-D Start again on Tuesday. Thank you again
for EVERYTHING..." MP (female, quit heroin, stayed clean
and turned her life around)
"hi, first I would like to thank you for taking the time
to program your site....not many people care about us
enough to take the time to offer the help you did. So,
thank you....it will be my 5th day with no dope... thank
you from the bottom of my heart... Thank you so much for
replying. I am so glad there are people like you who
really care. Again thank you and God bless you."
KT
(male)
"hi, im doing cold turkey day 2.cant reach valioums etc
.it is good i managed till now. good luck to me".
GL
(male)
"hey bro im trying to quit heroin for the 4th time.the
first time i quit i quit heroin cold turkey but im so
stupid 4 trying it again.i came across ur web site which
inspires me to try it again....if u can help me i would
greatly appreciate it thankx bro." JS (male)
"thankyou for your reply,, i have read your article over
and over again,, he is on day 5 now and doing quite
well... xx thankyou." MS (female helping boyfriend)
"I have 2 days now. I pray it is not going to be as bad
as it was when I used for years. I have your web page on
my favorites to pull up to read for support. May God
bless you for what you are doing to help other addicts.
Thank you," RW (female)
UPDATE: "Thank you so much for getting back to me. I
have basically been trying to sleep for the 4 days clean
I have now. Today, I am going to make myself go for
those walks. I know, like I know my name this could be
so much worse than it is. Oh man, your site says it
perfectly....FIGHT OR YOUR LIFE! I don't ever want to go
back there.... Being clean definitely outweighs using. I
know drugs are a lie from the pits of hell. I love your
web site Jorge. It brings strength, comfort and hope. It
really is a step by step action to take. The one thing I
have never ever done in the past was to use exercise as
a tool. I know that must work because my fatigue was
terrible and my doctor mentioned walking brisk for 30
minutes a day to cure the fatigue. So I appreciate all
the pain you have gone through over this deadly disease
to bring hope to others. I know thats what recovery is
all about. Thanks for being my buddy through this. May
the good Lord bless you ten fold for all you are doing.
I really appreciate you Jorge!!!... God bless you!"
RW
(female)
"im on day two no meds cold turkey the hardest part of
my life is doing this for me. no more dope!..."
RR
(male)
NEW UPDATE: "ive been sober for 9 mon. and im doing
good... if you know some one that needs some help with
there problem and i can help please let me know..
thanks for your sourport!" RR (male)
"i really appreciate the advice. everyday seems as if
its getting better and better. It feels a little wierd
but i should be fine.i just need the anxiety to go away
and ill be myself.but its great to know theres a
friendout there for help, your a big help. thanx man."
BK (male)
"hi there, hope you are well. WELL I DID IT = 13 DAYS
CLEANS FROM ANYTHING TODAY - i had to reduce myself down
in the end with the meth tablets and valium. longest i
ve been clean in 20 years..... the meth is as bad as the
other stuff they really shouldnt be so quick to get you
on a long term maintenance script... god its good to get
this stuff out my head...i got good people around me -
im sure you can imagine my body and brain is mashed. but
taking it slowly. need to get to a NA meeting and get my
white keyring. went to our local drug place and although
the valium showed up it was my 1st clean pee sample
err..... EVER!!!! i'm not going back to that existence - i will leave it now and thanks for listening."
MD
(female)
"Hi Jorge, Thank you for your email. I haved talked to
my husband and he has started the detoxing process again
today. I pray that this will be his last and final
attempt at getting off heroin for good. I have printed
out all the literature for him from your website and he
spent all night last night going over them. It seemed to
give him some encouragement that he can do this, and he
seemed very sincere that he wants to kick this thing
once and for all. I will keep supporting him as much as
I can. Thanks again for your website, it has been a
great help for us." MB (wife helping husband)
"I just wanna say....THANK YOU SO.. MUCH! This is the
only thing to get me to quit. after reading this I
prepared myself and did it. Kicking my 3 bag a day habit
was so hard, but i did it finally. And it was all help
to your guide bro. If i could hug you, i would. Again,
thanks a lot. <3<3 Much love..." RH (male)
"I quit cold turkey about 2 days ago. I just cant take
the lifestyle anymore. Your website had a ton of useful
info that Im sure will help me thru this troubling time.
I really appreciate you taking the time to put it up.
Its gonna be a long hard battle. But i know that I have
to do it for myself... I dont want to have any money on
me at all so Im not tempted to use it for dope... Ive
been just trying to work out to the point of exhaustion
... I thank you for caring enough though to make this
website. It really does offer alot of help that people
dont know about. Thank you..." JS (male)
"THANK YOU! my son (25 yrs old) is detoxing, started
this week, the depression is hard on him right
now...your site is a blessing...THANK YOU!!!!" NT
(mother helping son)
"You truly are an inspiration!!! I was just sat here
trying to get my dealer to give me some tick till friday
for a bag. But after reading what you've put here
I'm
going to do it... ..., I'm going to do it!! Seriously
didn't know what to do and you've really given me
hope... AGAIN THANK YOU." SW (male)
"Thanks for your email, Right now I feel pretty bad....I
really want to call my dealer but I'm putting those
thoughts out. Going to try some Tylenol fever stuff.
Will update you through out the day. Thanks,"
TT
(Female)
"Jorge, what a relief to see the web site. I'm currently
on my 3rd day of quitting my addiction cold turkey... I
haven't stepped out side yet. I've searched before for a
web site that helped one quit cold turkey and your site
is that exactly. You saved my life Jorge. Thank you."
JJ
(male)
"My brother is a heroin addict. I am helping him quit
cold turkey. I have read your article. today is the
first day. i am going to help him get through this. wish
us luck and pray for us. Thank you."JR (sister helping
brother)
"Hi Jorge I hope your ok. I dont know if you remember me
but i thought i would let you know how things are going.
"" is still clean it has now been 3 1/2 months...
he is
doing well. I would like to thank you again for all your
advice because if it wasnt for you i dont think we would
have still been together and i am sure he wouldnt have
stayed clean. Take care" LM (girlfriend helping
boyfriend)
"i really enjoyed reading about your story on your web
page it gives me inspiration and helps me drive to quit
so thank you for sharing your story it means alot to me
look forward to hearing from you thanks again"
JW (male)
"thank you very much for your fast response we are 3
days without it is rough but that chapter in our lives
in closed as far as we are concerned . thank you again
and take care !!!" KT (female)
"hi im currently doing a cold turkey this is my 14th
day.. thank you xx" KM (female)
"beautiful man... I am on day 3 havent done ne since
thur night... Its now 3am monday morning. I have been
working out and it seems to help... thanks for the
insight I will try the running! thanks for the support n
good tips compared to a lot of sites out there. I dont
know why there arent more people suggesting exercise. I
dont think methadone works imho it might just make
things worse!" JM (male)
"Well day 19 i'm finally not wanting to cry about
everything, and i have a little energy. Wow i can't wait
till i feel normal again." TC (male)
UPDATE: "god man i made it 20 now my emotions are still
out of wack. and i work a labor job i got it about 5
days ago its nice cause when i use my body it helps me
sleep and stay busy. thanks for talking with me.life is
good. and i just found that out my wife is talking to me
again. take it easy." TC (male)
"This site is the most informative of any I've
encountered. I am drug free my husband struggles with
dependence. I needed information to avoid manipulation
of what I don't know. I needed information to educate
myself and support his kick cold turkey. I found it all
here honest, simple and straight forward. Thank You
much." RA (wife helping husband)
"Hi Jorge, I'm on day 3 & feeling horrendous..... but,
having just read your page, I feel encouraged & a bit
more prepared as to what I can expect from the next few
days... but I figure I've got this far & want to carry
on. Cheers," SB (female)
UPDATE: "Thank you for your encouraging words. Really,
that's been a huge help. Thank you for letting me
write... It's 11.00AM on Day4....- At 5am I took some pics of my face with my camera and under my chin I'm
holding a bit of paper, on which I've written "DON'T
EVER DO THIS TO YOURSELF AGAIN". I am going to keep
these to remind myself after I get better. I only had
one drug-related phone number (the dealer) and I've rid
my phone of all traces or means of contacting him - did
that yesterday and it was quite scary/cathartic all at
once... so am just gonna have to sweat it out... Anyway,
am off to take your advice and go sit in a very hot tub
now. Once again, Thanks ever so much for listening &
being so encouraging" SB (female)
UPDATE: "It's now Day 8. I'm good. I'm well and I'm
happy. I am also never, ever going back there. I kept a
diary and took photos of myself during last week...just
in case I forget, y'know? I'm going to a support centre
tomorrow, to begin the business of staying free. I feel
very determined. Thank you! Really... I would like you
to be aware of just how important your web page is. It's
right there at the top of the google search page. It's
straightforward, honest and PRACTICAL. It helped me at
exactly at the time I needed it. In addition to this, to
reach out & make contact at that time and receive such
an encouraging reply...it was massively productive & so
very helpful. I guess (really hope, in fact) that it
does the same thing for others when they are at that
awful, desperate & crucial stage, in the early hours
during the early phase of cold turkey. I'm sure it does.
Good for you, man!. All the best" SB (female)
"thanks for all the great advice in the how to quit
section, it was more than helpful for me. the last 5
days of my life like you said have been total hell on
earth but i have managed to get threw...thnx alot"
RO
(male)
"Hello, I am just checking in. My son is day 5 clean,
drug tested. Some of the bad stuff is gone. Life is good
today. Thanks for your help." MS (mom helping son)
"I am happy to report I am on day three... I am glad you
responded, nice to have someone to talk to about all
this. And your going out of your way to help people is
highly commendable, thank you!" EF (male)
"Hello Jorge ,Well day 4 is almost over and day 5 will
be here soon. I hope he remembers this sickness every
time the crave comes a calling." JC (brother helping
brother)
"Dear Jorge, I just wanted to drop you a quick email to
say thank you for your website. It was so helpful to my
boyfriend and I when he was going through cold turkey
from Heroin. He has now been clean for over a
month and continues to work at staying clean every day
we look
forward to your updates... Thank you. Best regards"
ED
(girlfriend helping boyfriend)
"Thanks, We attended his 30 day key ring meeting last
night. So far it's still like dealing with two different
people." SK (mother helping son)
"I'm right in the middle of it Cold Turkey off H at
day
5. I came across this site and just wanted to say what a
great resource it is and how helpful it has been to me
personally. I'm actually plan on going for a run in the
morning. I never would've attempted that before reading
this. Thank You for the help!," JD (male)
"I'm going cold turkey as i type, i'm sure glad for some
of your suggestions. I was 4 bag/day user so i hope it
won't be worse than what you said. Thanks for the
advice.." CK (female)
UPDATE: "Jorge, Thanks for suggestions....a lot easier
than last time. What worked the best so far was the hot
baths and the Nyquil...Sleeping has been an hour here
and an hour there.... But i wanted to thank you for
helping me. I appreciate so much.." CK (female)
UPDATE: "Jorge, I think i have mad it through the worst
of it. With your help i have made it. The cravings are
still bad but i would expect that. Getting out and
walking has really helped the muscle and boned pain plus
it helps me clear my head. sleep is coming slow but
sure. Thanks for being there for me!!" CK (female)
UPDATE: "Jorge, first of all I want to thank you so much
for helping me get through this. It was your suggestions
that got me through the withdrawals. Thank You Thank
YOU!!!!" CK (female)
"Jorge, Thanks so much for all the great advice you sent
to me. My nephews .... and so far he is doing ok.
He is
attending meetings daily. We are supporting him as best
we can. My sister drug tested him after the prom and it
was clean. I really appreciate your advice and thoughts.
You have helped more than you can know." DC (aunt
helping nephew)
"you are so right man, music does effects you, a lot
whenever i hear rock/metal, i remember my old days."
BB
(male)
UPDATE: "neither heroin nor weed, just sum cigarettes,
that too, once in a month or so, liftin weights keep me
sane, most of it...thanx man, i will never forget you,
ever. nowadays m listening to elvis presley, frank sinatra, pavarotti etc. i listened to sum country stuf"
BB (male)
UPDATE: "man i hav came out of cigarettes
now, i dont do them at all,... nice progress on the site man, keep it
up...my days are spent mostly studying, sleeping, eating
etc. man now it feels real good. keep doin the good job,
bro, ur words help a lot... u know wat brother, ur
emails are like a breath of fresh air in my otherwise
dull and grey life. i guess we are a a very few of a
kind i dunno wat kind, apart from the fact that we both
believe in good morals, but i value that more than
anything, so i remembered u, and i think ur a great
person, u shud be known all over media. take care mate,
hope ur well and hope u prosper well :-P"
BB
(male)
NEW UPDATE: "thanks man, i have not smoked anything,
repeat, *anything* , thats an achievement,...i am
training hard, i can squat 320 lbs and deadlift 400 lbs
and my bodyweight is 200+ lbs!!! a bit chubby but
i
train to get stronger so am okay with how i look,
life
is great.... am aiming to get a government job as it
provides a better stability,... :D peace brother...
regards from the far east :) ..." BB (male)
"Thanks Jorge, for this really great info. I've been on
a lot of addiction drug boards, and never knew some of
the stuff you have written back to me. Currently, I
almost feel like I can stand on 2 feet, and I have taken
your advice about the valerian root.
It helps a lot with
the calming. And the music, i managed to actually make a
few CD's and made it through work today. I'll get those
movies you recommended, I used to love to watch movies
before this, and funny movies. Thanks again, great
website and info..Really like the music bit in your
essay. That did work for me, listening to good
music.!!!..." JJ (male)
UPDATE: "Thanks man, I appreciate your encouragement.
I'm doing a lot better now (day 5). I also went through
a lot of the same stuff you did when you were young."
JJ
(male)
"This music is so crazy awesome!!!!! The power of music
is so amazing!!!! Fly high to the sky"
A (female)
"Hey Thank You Very Much I have not used for 3 weeks
now... your web page gives me a great amount of
hope...Thank You Again!!!" DC (male)
"yay " " has been clean for a month tomorrow!! im so
excited. its been tough, harder than i thought. we've
been through a lot..but we are making it!! which gives
him more encouragement to keep going strong!! its
awesome to see him doing this well." KC (girlfriend
helping boyfriend)
UPDATE: "he has been clean for about 2 months.
he has
changed soo much..in a good way of course. im soo
happy!!" KC (girlfriend helping boyfriend)
UPDATE: "he has been clean from dope for 3 months..."
KC
(girlfriend helping boyfriend)
UPDATE: "he's been clean almost 5 months i can't believe
it. its amazing. and now we go biking riding together
while the kids are in school. in fact, yesterday we rode
around a 6 mile trail in only an hour..... haha. its so
good to see him doing well. .... " " is trying to quit
smoking cigarettes now!!" KC (girlfriend helping
boyfriend)
UPDATE: "and now has gone 30 days without a cigarette.
Man, he is just amazing. I am so happy I had the
strength within me to stay with " " throughout all the
really hard dope times. He enrolled back in college to
finish his degree! So we will be in the same college
together, how fun! :)" KC (girlfriend helping boyfriend)
UPDATE: "I'm just real happy he quit heroin. that was
the big thing! i am so proud of him, he has been clean
since May. that's 7 months just about!! life is getting
so much better with him. his true personality is showing
and lights up my life :) we do so much together now..."
KC (girlfriend helping boyfriend)
UPDATE: "well hello. it's been a loong time since we've
talked. i've been thinking about you lately.. wondering
how your life is and what awesome stuff you're doing now
a days..as far as "" and i, "" is still sober!!! a year
next month from the heroin and a year in august that he
quit popping pills (vicos)... its amazing!!!
he is back
in college now finishing his degree... yes, that's
right, he's back in school!!! :) .. life is amazing. ..
"" is down to 7-8 cigarettes a day!!! so many good
changes! we have been talking about finding a place to
live together!! things are just that solid with us."" is
an amazing man!.. he goes on looooong walks now and
actually enjoys them. lots of bike rides. runs around
with me and the kids at the park... i hope all is well.
and hope you're still helping those in need. you have a
great gift for that. hope to hear from you soon."
KC
(girlfriend helping boyfriend)
NEW UPDATE: "Hello. How have you been. ...You helped us with everything.
Thank you. Anyways, I'm just checkin' in to see how
things are going for you in Florida... As for """, the
kids, and myself..we are doing great. """ has been sober
for about 2 years now(or at least i think it's 2 years)
and is on his way to finishing 2 degrees... .
He is
currently employed as a technicain... and
the boys are
doing pretty well. Myself, I just finished a nursing assisant degree moving forward to become an RN. ....
we
are doing wonderful. Trying to save money for a
house....good to hear from you..glad you got back so
soon. :-) ..." KC (girlfriend helped boyfriend quit
heroin, stayed clean and turned his life around)
Hey Jorge, thx for the help. I am an opiate addict for
over a year and have now quit cold turkey...Thanks again
for your time and concern". BZ (male)
"I'm on my 8 night... I really enjoyed your website
you
need to let the people know that music really
helps!!!!!" TC (male)
"hey there thanks so much for your email i really was
shocked when i seen it but thanks,, hell i came home and
15 people called me asking if i want some to help me
from being sick and i said no that im going clean even
my nabor had a few and said here and i just walked away
and said no thanks...so my older son has been up here
with me keeping an eye on me...and i got most of what
you have said to keep around to help me too so im going
to do this no matter what im done with the dope it has
ran my life to long and i want it back and i thank you
for the emails i never thout i would hear back and its
great to know there is help out there even on line
thanks so much and sorry for my spelling lol.will im
going for a shower then bed night and agen thanks"
SS
(male)
"my body is pretty miserable but my brain is putting a
good fight... your mails gives me strength even though i
now that everything is on me btw i changed my phone my
dealer cant find me if he try :D just one more thing
mate, few months when we spoke i said no way physical
activities can help if ur on withdrawal but once i
played footbal(soccer) with friends and man i didnt feel
the withdrawal... anyways you sure know your stuff.. and
gr8 u made this site. ill write you later.THANK YOU.
this time i will do it all the way...im half way trough"
GP (male)
UPDATE: "its my day 5 and im going to work :)
yea im
trying to be positive im listening to your advices and
my body... i have a feeling that i owe you bcs you dont
ask anything but ur with me 100% and i really appreciate
it i think you can imagine.. ok im going to eat soup now
:) i slept 45 mins today hehe its going to be ok
im
gonna drop this awful thing and have my life back. today i went out to see a friend and i smelled the summer man!
my nose works. life is much more worth than best high i
had. thank you for being with me. talk to you later. all
the best:)" GP (male)
UPDATE: "i just returned home, had a shower again :)
hehehe my stomach is coming back to life and everything
else :) so im very good now i feel a lot stronger in my
body. your support means VERY VERY much man. tnx yet
again. cheers! :)" GP (male)
UPDATE: "didnt touch h for more than a mont and a
half... its great to have ur life back..i dont even
smoke weed or drink beer actually very very rare"
GP
(male)
UPDATE: "Life is great i cant believe i was wasting it
with something like heroin, the high is so not worth it,
i would return all my "greatest heroin highs" for a 1
day of str8, my brain works better,
i have tons of self
esteem, i feel much smarter and relaxed..."
GP (male)
NEW UPDATE: "(1 year later)
hi man...im still heroin
free and mostly other drugs aswell..."
yeah i dont smoke
cigarettes since january forgot all about that hehe...
but heroin and drugs are the least of my problems coz i
dont crave them...
best regards to you mate.. stay cool..." GP (male)
"Today is my 1st day off heroin, I have been shooting it
for 2 years,..." JC (female)
"my partner is suffering from an addiction, and
is
trying to go cold turkey. he is currently on day 3."
NH
(girlfriend helping boyfriend)
"Hey.. We will be leaving tomorrow morning and head back
home. My girl is doing great, for a while I thought this
wasn't going to work, but I think she finally saw the
light. We are changing her number in the morning and
deleting anyone in her contacts that does dope. With
that hopefully she will make it... Thank you again for
everything, I really couldn't have done it without you."
JT (boyfriend helping girlfriend)
"Thank you for this website.. I actually quit heroin on
my own 5 days ago. This is quite possibly the worst
experience of my life, but you are right... the end
result is the best thing to look to. I feel better
today,.... Your tips are awesome and I've been doing
them. I've been taking LOTS of vitamins.. those work a
lot. Thank you again. you are appreciated." RB (female)
"I wanted to say thanks. your website helped alot.
been
clean for 2 weeks now. your advice made my hell a little
more tolerable." AR (male)
"Hi,... i have read you helpful tips and yes i do stay
in the bathtub that helps the most for me. this
is going
on day 6...." SS (female)
UPDATE: "I had finally got a few hours of sleep this
mourning. thank you for your advice."
SS (female)
"Thanks for the advice. I am on detox day 11...I pretty
much did it cold turkey..Thanks" MS (male)
"Thanks for your help. I've a son to help through this
and I'm glad I've done some research on how hard it is
to kick and what can help. Thanks." SK (mother helping
son)
"Just when i thought there was no way out i read your
article on how to quit heroine....followed ur cold
turkey way and im on my way to recovery....
I feel
elated and rejuvenated & and I will NEVER go back there
& im working my way to recover firstly my GOD and my
beloved family. I wish to sincerely thank God & U for
assisting me through this gruesome and life destructing
ordeal...." MF (male)
UPDATE: "Dear Jorge, With tears in my eyes i thank u
again. I will die trying to better my life and all those
around me." MF (male)
"My wife and i had just quit 21 days ago cold turkey. We
do struggle sometimes... But we will never go back. A
lot of the things in the article you wrote we did and i
am glad to see someone else made it.... we dont want to
go there again. thank you for the read that you made it
was very inspiring." TC (husband and wife)
"Thanks a lot your page helped me quit cold turkey
day 6
now. I used about 4 caps snorted per day. withdrawing
was hard...but amen i am here." MA (female)
"Thank you for your site. Your part on cold turkey
quitting is all i needed to believe that i would be safe
if i went cold turkey. Also thanks for your honesty on
what to expect as the days of withdrawal go by. Thanks
again for the advice, it really gave me hope..... I
always thought suboxone was safer than that, but its
still an opiate that i will have to kick." MG (male)
UPDATE: "Thanks Jorge, you're a stranger that feels like
my life line. Thank you so much for the game plan. I
literally have thought that i wish someone would show me
how to do it. It means a lot to me that you would go out
of your way to answer my e mail. You are so realistic
about it also in that you know i have to do it til i can
get to the weekend. God Bless you sir for the courage to
help people like me. I will definitely keep in touch."
MG (male)
"hi ive just done cold turkey its two weeks today... i
still have energy drains but attending gym, when i was
using i was smoking £20 a day.thanks" DN (male)
"im quitting right now and its been 4 days. after
reading this im going to try these things. especially
the sleeping things... thanks for putting this page up.
god bless you man." SB (female)
"Thanks for the info. This is probably the best info I
got yet. It's been a long 15 yrs of fighting dope,
methadone, rehabs. I'll probably keep e-mailing you
cause you influence me. you know how it feels. Thanks
again." CL (male)
"thanks for your great website, i am caring for my
brother who was smoking heroin... after day 7 and he is
clean. thanks again" HS (sister helping brother)
"thank you for all that you do. I'm sure you have
touched more people than you've realized. As far as I'm
concerned, your place in heaven is already reserved.
Most people don't understand the enormity of the
problem, to most, a junkie is just a worthless human
being that is too lazy to get it together - but do not
worry - God knows." GD (male)
UPDATE: "My Dude, Please be advised that I am now drug
free. It has been 3 weeks since I have used any heroin
and I am now enrolled in a program which I go to M-F
from 8 am to 3:30 pm everyday. Regardless, your emails
are like a breath of fresh air because they remind me of
the beast I need to battle. Your friend," GD (male)
UPDATE: "Jorge, Just want to point out that several
things taken together have really contributed to my
progress. One main ingredient is your words and the time
you invested in our correspondence. I think that your
website and your involvement is truly a blessing from
God for all the junkies that u reach out to and
help...your website and your words enabled me to break
from the prison of my addiction as well as the prison of
the unending cycle of kicking dope in institutions. God
bless brother - I will always keep in touch and
hopefully, when I achieve enough clean time, maybe I
could join you in your fight to help junkies come to
terms on what they need to do to recover without falling
through the trap door. Your friend and grateful
companion," GD (male)
"Hi Jorge, First i would like to say congratulations on
quitting heroin. Really well done to you. My boyfriend
has just gone thru cold turkey to quit heroin and is
doing really well. He is really determined to stay clean
and i have faith that he will... Thank you" CM
(girlfriend helping boyfriend)
UPDATE: "Thank you for replying so quickly....i have
printed the email and will show it to my boyfriend
tonight when i get home. i think we can manage to do
lots of walking... i have found that he needs to be
active so the walking will help. The pains in his legs
are horrific at times so am gonna get him to do the hot
bath thing as soon as i get home. you are very kind to
offer your help and support and it means a lot, i mean
we are strangers and you are so willing to help us...
you are a very good person Jorge. Thanks for the advice
Jorge...." CM (girlfriend helping boyfriend)
"So tomorrow begins yet another fight to finally put
this... drug behind me. This time I'm ready though, I've
gotten through it in the past and I'm confident that the
right mindset and words of encouragement such as the
ones you provide will see me through! Thank you for this
web page!" JS (female)
"I have now been through the heroin/methadone/Suboxone
detox process about 15 times in the last three years. I
am (was) a user who injected and have done so for the
past 10 years. I am now in another detox (day 4)...I
read your tips and they have helped. I just pray these
symptoms go away and stay away." IM (male)
UPDATE: "Hi Jorge, thanks for the tips!
It really took a
lot to drag my weary bones out of bed and get in a bath
but it works and I thank you for that...
the bath is the
way forward." Let's 'hope' this is the last time I ever
have to do this again. Thanks for your advice again,"
IM
(male)
"My son is trying to quit cold turkey now, I am glad I
found your sight its been the best information I've read
yet. I will keep supporting him and following all the
good advice, I have even printed this out for him to
read. Thank You," GG (mother helping son)
"jorge, its been since monday at 8 am. im trying! im
even at work...., but i figured itd help keep my mind
off it. they think i just have a really bad cold..but i
found that sitting at home drove me more crazy. but,
im
trying. i mean really monday at 8 am was a long time
ago. i just wanted to tell you! thanks!" AH (female)
"good info jorge as all users who have kicked the best
and fastest way to feeling better is going to a gym and
sitting in the sauna for 20 min then getting out drink a
ton of water then the steam room for 20 min you sweat
more in that hour than a full 5 days!! if you dont have
a membership you can pay $10 for a day pass at most
gyms, by far the fastest and cleanest way!!"
SD (male)
"Hello again Jorge, I cannot express how thankful I am
for your advice...I am really willing to go through all
of that for him. Deep inside I know this is the right
way to go,...Again, I sincerely thank u for this
detailed advice and I really respect what u have
achieved and the fact that ur helping other people get
there too :) God bless you..." JG (girlfriend helping
boyfriend)
"Of all the web searches I've done - yours has touched
me the most. It was straightforward, true and inspiring.
Doing this IS THE MOST DIFFICULT thing in the world to
overcome. Thanks for lending an ear. You're an
inspiration. Wish me luck." AW (female)
"hi there, well i have looked and looked for help on
getting off this stuff and thanks to your web site
im
starting today and i hope and know i can do this because
its what i want more then anything so i would like too
thank you for your site" SS (male)
"I want to thank you, so very much, for your advice and
extremely helpful page. I found your site very easily
and also found it to be encouraging as well as extremely
helpful... Your site tells of alot of different methods
i myself used and have found to be very helpful...Thank
you for putting your time into making and sustaining
this site. It's great..." LC (female)
"Day 8 and things are going pretty well, I took my son
out to work a little to burn up some energy" JJ (father
helping son))
UPDATE: "we are now 27th with out any issues. again I
think we are getting there, for the parents out there
that want to give up don't. each time we took him a
little longer in days till I now think we have done it.
We have used your program as are guide and didnt give
up. Guided him to find new friends, music. thank you
for putting this site up !!! We have done this with out
any meds of any kind so it can be done. I will keep you
posted. Thanks again." JJ (father helping son)
UPDATE: "Just thought I would Chime in and up date you
Jorge We are somewhere between 60 and 90 days now.. and
we are still moving forward.... Alot of issues after the
Quiting!, but I think we are there now. thanks for you
support and web page." JJ (father helped son)
"Hey great website! I am helping my girlfriend quit an
opiate addiction... 2 days clean for her!!"
JM
(boyfriend helping girlfriend)
"Hello Thank you for creating this site. .I need a
friend like you right now Thank you again for posting
this site. it has helped me and I hope it helps the
thousands around the world that are struggling with an
addiction much love and happiness."
SN (male)
UPDATE: "on Sunday I just had enough and
told my mum
everything... she is willing to help me and send me for
counseling... I feel better after talking to my mum and
I know things are different now... all I need was for
someone to care and be there for me... You are helping
so many people and that is amazing... good on you!, you
will be blessed in many ways because of the help that
you are giving :>).. you have helped me :>) Wishing you
all the happiness and success" SN (male)
UPDATE: "Hello my friend! I hope you are well, thank you
for the encouraging words. You can add me to the list of
people that have quit heroin also! I am on my way to
becoming clean and making all the wrong I did right...
last night I wrote my dad a 3 page letter, coming clean
about everything that I have done. I have decided to
join a drug rehab program and then help people with the
same problem as me.. that way I will always be around
the battle against drugs and keep away from it!!! You
site has really helped me to quit and encouraged me...
my body feels like its healing itself more rapidly...
quitting heroin has also helped me quit cigarettes!!!..
I wish you all the best and success in all your
endeavors and keep up the great work my friend!... you
are helping a lot of people around the world and saving
so many lives... its great to be your friend... and
I
hope we can keep in contact forever and always encourage
each other to stay away from drugs and help others in
need!!" SN (male)
"...This website has really helped me to help her...
Thanks" CB (boyfriend helping girlfriend)
UPDATE: "Well today was her
day 3 and the first half of
the day was pretty rough for her like the last few days,
but as the day went on she started getting some of her
strength back...Thank you so much, i really cant express
my appreciation enough." CB (boyfriend helping
girlfriend)
UPDATE: "my girlfriend had been going through the
process of quitting cold turkey and is now on day 8.
Things are actually getting back to normal....Thanks"
CB
(boyfriend helping girlfriend)
"Thanks for the advice. I slept maybe 3 hours of crazy
dream sleep yesterday morning. Got up at 1pm, been up
since, almost 24 hours. I am through the dope sickness,
thank God. I am on day 14 of my detox... It's funny,...
I feel like a little boy starting over... You know this
is my 10th or 12th time kicking this..., I just havn't
gone this long without using... That sweating stuff and
exercise is so right on. People don't realize when they
are kicking that exercise and those endorphins make you
feel so much better.... Thanks again, anymore advice
would be great. Take care," MS (male)
UPDATE: "I am still on the right path day by day my
friend." MS (male)
"Hello Jorge, I can't thank you enough for replying to
me so quickly. You have given me hope that I can help my
son through this. I have and will continue to read your
website and the reply that you sent me. Today I caught a
slight glimpse of the son that was before the heroin, I
know he is there and I will follow your advice and find
him once again. He has shivered and shook a lot today,
he has cried and repeatedly told me he is sorry, but I
have replied like you said that's in the past let's look
to the future.Then I switched my role from mum to friend
as you said. We watched a film "", an old favorite of
his... He ate a little soup and a slice of bread.
We are
going for a walk tomorrow (we live near to a beautiful
forest " ") and I have made him a calendar. The next few
weeks are going to be hard but with your help we will
get through this evil, evil thing called heroin. Once
again thank you so much for giving me some of your time,
it means alot to me.... Bye for now" DH (mother helping
son)
"I am just writing to say what a wonderful website here,
the list of how to get clean must be a huge inspiration
to so many people. I can not believe all the withdrawal
symptoms and now understand how hard it is for people to
leave their live which is in fact heroin. I think it is
great you are helping to make a great difference to
peoples lives and I can not believe I never realized
before how much heroin takes a hold of people. Thank you
for your time." YT (female)
"I am going to do as you suggested and move away. I am
first going to delete all the numbers in my phone and
get my number changed. Im doing this today and on hold
with att right now. Its time to stop putting these
things off im going to drive as far away from " " as
possible and check into a hotel to do my suffering alone
and far away from the .... that only wish to make me
worse. I really am glad you responded to my message and
told me the basic steps i need to take." JV (male)
"Doing alright. Actually in "" right now.... so
I
decided to come here and detox in a different
environment. I just plan on staying in the sun as much
as possible. Thanks for always getting back to me. It
really means alot. Thanks," TT (female)
"ive been doing H for 3 years and physically addicted
for over 2 years.ive done between 2 and 5 grams everyday
for last 2 years. i quit 2 weeks ago..."
JC (male)
"Its been 2 days now...I am no longer weak or tired that
was only a day. Thank the Lord.... Thank you very much
for listening bro." CM (male)
"Thanks so much. I really thought I was lost until I
read this. I'm on my second try, the first time I had
suboxone but this time I have to do it on my on. I
didn't know until I read this that everyone else felt
the same things. Just wanted to let you know that I
appreciate it and wish me luck, its my second day 1." KC
(female)
"Thank you for your page. I am pushing 48 hours... I
really dont know how to quit, which is why I looked it
up online, and found your page. I shoot at least 4 to 5
bags a day, more if I have the money. I HAVE to quit!
Just wanted to let you know I needed the page you
made..Thank you" RK (male)
"Dear Jorge, Thank you for the helpful letter.
I am
going to try my best to follow your advice. Hopefully we
will over come this and " " will have the great life I
know she wants and she deserves. I would really be
interested in hearing your opinion on types of music you
suggest and other info. Again thank you for your advice
and help." CG (mother helping daughter)
"Hey Just thought I would give you a little update.
We're on day 3 of rehab at home. Well technically two of
us are. One of my friends actually took a huge step,
he
informed his parents that he was addicted and went to
rehab 2 days ago. I have to say I'm very proud of him
coming clean and all, but I'm still going to ride it out
here at the apartment. Thanks for all your help."
SV
(male)
"Thanks for your web-site. I'm sure I'll be referring to
it in the next few days as I MUST do this."
TL (female)
"Hi, I quit cold turkey 3 weeks ago..."
TO (male)
"Dear Jorge Fernandez, My boyfriend and I have been
addicted to oxycontin (same as heroin) for 2 years and
have just decided to quit cold turkey. I found your site
a few months ago when we first started thinking about
quitting. I pulled it up again today and I just want to
thank you for doing this. I know its easy to find
information on addiction and quitting on the internet
but the layout of your site is so perfect and easy to
follow. We are going to print it out and use all your
tips. I wrote down all the medicines and stuff you
recommended and we are going to go buy everything you
recommended. Thanks soooo much!" KB (female)
"Its been a rough week on top of workin fulltime.
Im
holdin strong though. Havent touched it once. I am
starting to feel much better. The aches come back from
time to time but shortly thereafter they are gone.
Thanks alot for your concern and support. I really
appreciate it... Your website had a ton of useful info
that Im sure will help me thru this troubling time. I
really appreciate you taking the time to put it up. Its
gonna be a long hard battle. But i know that I have to
do it for myself. I thank you for caring enough though
to make this website. It really does offer alot of help
that people dont know about. Thank you." JC (male)
"I am finally doing this with out methadone, suboxone
and all that ... that isnt any good for you also.
But I
am doing it! I have to. These tips on taking care of
myself are going to help. I just want to get away from
it and be normal with my family and old friends. Thanks
for having this page up, I feel strong enough already...
Maybe since I've read this page and printed it out, it
is going to make a difference this time. Pray for me.
Thanks again" ND (female)
"thanks 4 out put its been 3 long days i live in ill ive
been using year half its a war"
RC (male)
"Jorge, your words are a salve even to ME! Thank you for
the concrete guidance. It's the most descriptive anyone
has been. That's what we need! I'll let you know what
happens. Thanks for your caring concern and the time
you've taken to help us." RS and family (female helping
family member)
"I have a cousin, who just quit getting high...He has
been clean for about 3 months... I take him for 5 or
more miles of biking riding almost daily..." BV (female)
"Hey there, I wanted to give you props for writing this
guide. For many people, cold turkey is the way to go, as methodone treatment will not help... Again, I think its
really cool of you to put up this website." MF (male)
"hi there, i thought your blog there was the best one
i've ever read. The most accurate with a few lines of
soft humor... I am seeing a drug councilor every week
and sometimes aa or na meetings will just get you
through the day sometimes... but thanks for making your
page available to the world, I hope millions of other
addicts will read it and feel inspired to just do it,
it's so true, you just have to shut up and do it.
congrats." JF (female)
"Thank you so much for this site. Me and my husband are
making the fight now it has been 4 days as it is so
hard.... It is just nice to see that someone went
through this all and stayed off. Because leaving it
alone is the hardest part. Again Thank you" MR (female)
"just wanned to say, thanks for the great advice,
i just
helped a friend go cold turkey n the pointers really
helped. it was good to be well prepared! thank you God
Bless" AD (male)
"I requested a week and half off work starting in a
couple days because I am ready to quit... Anyway thank
you so much for this wonderful information" MB (male)
"Hey buddy, good news! I'm on day 13 right now and never
felt more powerful in my life. I took in a lot of
supplements, got a counselor, talked to friends, I'm at
the point where I'm training every day an hour a day...
So I'm beyond where I thought I'd be on day 13...and now
I'm just feeling on top of the world mentally. Not quite
physically...but I don't care. That is nothing compared
to the hell I endured at the beginning of
withdrawal...had me crying and praying for the first
time in my life. Thanks Brother" GS (male)
UPDATE: "I'm pretty damn certain I'm going to get
through this for life now...I'm on day 17. I'm gonna get
to at least day 100,000 haha. Now that I'm back and my
aggression, sex drive, quick wit, energy all snapped
back...Keeping myself occupied, spending time with
friends, girlfriend, and hitting the gym like I used to
before using... So yea man, so far so good. I'm doing
everything in my power to keep my mind busy and to keep
my positivity high and my energy levels as high as
possible. The more I forced myself every day to be
active despite lethargy, the more the energy was coming
back to me naturally as the days passed. It's amazing
how you can snap back, be stronger and better than
before using drugs, in a mental and soon a physical
sense." GS (male)
"Thank you your site is helping me alot.im a 17 year old
girl going through hell like you said but ill do this
everyone will see.Ill be better,So thank you again
you
have changed another life... Me and mom are so greatful
you made this site.Im sick as hell as you said but I'm
doing this its been 3 days for me and im starting to
feel alittle better. Anyways thank you have changed my
life THANK YOU!!!!" SB (female)
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..And I hope to add your testimony
to this page real soon.
Because the truth is, you CAN do this! You CAN
quit heroin, stay clean and turn your life around once
and for all.
All you gotta do now is just do it. Or at least
try! Quit dope or die trying!
And for all the mothers, fathers, sisters,
brothers, girlfriends, boyfriends and friends of
addicts, you CAN help and 'influence' your loved ones to
quit heroin and change their lives.
You CAN make a
difference. Starting now... Good luck.
And may the "Good Force" be with you... |
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